I dont if i trust my self to make the right choice help!?

Question

well theres this guy!
We kinda bestfriends we turing into it..
I am 16 turning 17 and hes only 18, we basically with each other all the time and constantly texting each other when hes got credit!!!!!
Im not sure if I like him, hes not hot or anything hes okay!
but im still attracted to him, i love hes personality and everything its great!!!
he calls me darling and always puts xoxoxo after text messages when we say goodnight and sh*t.

I dont know what to do I just cant stop thinking about it..
I would love all the help I can get thanks guys!!

erin
xx

P.S I am basically over being single and i want someone that can love me and i can love them I really wanna be in a relationship. as my mum said relationships are built around a special bond friends have and mum reckons i should date him bu tim not sur eif he l ikes me argh :(

Answer 1

I think we have all been there - it's great to have such friends you can be yourself with. Problem is, if you date them you risk making things "weird" and screwing up the friendship.

I think it's great that you're attracted to his personality and not just looks, that's a good sign. I think it is possible to date a best friend, but it takes caution:

You could ask him if he could ever date a friend without letting it mess up the friendship if it didn't work, that may start the dialogue. Just be sure that you are actually dating for the right reasons - meaning to see if you are compatible to go further, not just to hook up. Otherwise kiss the friendship goodbye!

Hope this helps, been there.