I was out of town when my girlfriend
1. lied about what she was going to do - said she was going to friends place and then went to a bar
2. lied about where she went - said she wasn't at bar but was
3. lied about who was there
4.She finally admitted to it all when the facts were presented to her and she was digging in deeper.
5. Not sure I should believe what time she left
6. Why would she lie in the first place
Lets here your answers
2007-03-21 23:11:52 · 14 answers · asked by dave m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry 2 say this but it sounds like she is cheating on u,why else would she lie to u?
2007-03-21 23:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by mamof14now 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, she is doing something with somebody else in which she has no business doing if she has to lie about what shes doing and where shes been. Don't only listen to your first mind but investigate and get the facts. Proof is better than assumptions. If you have a deep feeling that something is not right about this situation then 9 times out of 10 your right. But you do not need to be with a woman who is going to be dishonest with you. You don't deserve that no one does. Do yourself a favor drop that woman and test the waters there are more decent woman out there in the sea.
2007-03-29 19:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by diva22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, if she lied about going to the bar she had bad intentions on her mind. There is really no telling exactly what she did that night. Let's keep it real here, you know that she was up to no good. Don't let nobody's answer here tell you different. She didn't just go to have fun or hang-out you know that. You will never know the truth because she isn't going to tell you what really happened. The only thing you can do is just let it go. I couldn't let it go. She wanted until you out of town to party and then lies about it. I would let her go because if she like this know, your future is only going to get worse. Good Luck
2007-03-21 23:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that she wanted a night out on the town as most girls do. She probably lied because she didnt wanna alert you. But theres no excuse for someone to lie to the ones they love. It suggests that she is hiding something. She might cheat on you. I believe if someone can lie then they can cheat, steal and murder. If given the chance to, she will lie again. You should either sort it out or dump her.No sense in staying with someone who will stab you in the back the first chance they get.
2007-03-21 23:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably felt she had to try and lie.And obviously she did because you did not believe her and went around checking up on her to get the truth. If you are so insecure with your relationship and dont trust her enough, get rid of her. The only reason any partner ever cheats is because there is no more love in their relationship and they are to scared to end it and maybe wind up alone. Instead they drag through a series of problems with mistrust, accusations, and betrayal.
Also,if she is dissatisfied with you and needs it somewhere else, thats your fault too. Partnerships are fifty-fifty usually. Ask her what she wants and instead of the 3rd degree when she goes out, Just ask if she had fun and let it go.
2007-03-29 18:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....she's in deep s***.i always say that you shouldn't lie, otherwise you look like you hidin somethin.it depends on if you are over protective and you do't believe her for nothin, then it might be on you playa. but other wise i don't think is lookin good for her right now.
2007-03-29 12:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wanna be free and live the single life again. she doesn't have any reason to keep being an liar with you . ask her, what she wants from you, she can not ever be trusted by you, you should just move on with your life .
2007-03-28 20:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by lizrobledo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz she knew youd be pissed she was going to the bar in the first place...if not...then she was prob with a guy, or two, or going to hit on guys, she is a tramp, ..depending on how long u been dating or seeing her, or if you love her,,id say proceed with caution...or dump the sl.ut
2007-03-21 23:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Answeroni-the dime piece 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man it happens i mean i lied to my ex this morning and its only because he cant handle tha truth so if i lie hes made at me if i tell him tha truth hes made at me but i like that lie because he might not find out (wink wink)
2007-03-29 12:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously hiding something, though you can't be sure 100% that she cheated on you. Confront her about how you feel, ask her if she cheated on you.
2007-03-21 23:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋