Is the way he behaves in the bedroom a insight to his true personality?

Question

I went home with a guy the other night - very sexy - really good in the bedroom - I really enjoyed myself butI was a little concerned about things he did to me -
If he acts aggressively - a little more rough than anyone else i have been with - (i was bruised all ove rthe next day!) , can this mean he will be aggressive outside the bedroom? I find i cant stop thinking about him - are some people just into really rough sex? Im not complaining - just curious!!

Answer 1

Different people act differently.. May be you made him so hot that he became aggressive unintentionally.. Ask yourself. Do you like this aggressuive sex? If YES.. nothing to worry.. NO.. tell him and he will understand.

Answer 2

sex is sex, wether it's rough or not isn't the question, it's wether it was a turn on or turn off, if you liked then I suggest you try it out, or let it still happen to you. But as for the personality thing, it swings many ways, some people are only rough in bed because they're gentle out of it, sometimes it's just experimentation. I guess it depends on what kind of rough he was, take him if it was playful rough.

Answer 3

Just tell him how you felt the other night with him and if he does not change even after that then you can decide what to do. Anyway after 3 or 4 dates the heat would wear off and everything should settle just wait and watch.

Answer 4

Lets say you wouldn't really know someone unless your living together under the same roof :) that is perfectly true!! ;p

Answer 5

what happens in the bedroom stays in the bed room,..ask him to modify a bit, so you don't have to look like a smack down victim.

Answer 6

it means he doesnt take other peoples physical being into consideration and would probably end up being abusive.