i'm in college now, and i've been studying on an all girls school, for like forever. And i'm kind of worried on how am i going to get socialized with guys. I know i sound like a freak, but could you give some advice?
2007-03-21 22:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by hmm?. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all girls school? well i think you're natural "girl" should come in. if it doesnt, then take it slow. integrate yourself into your new social life. get used to it; live at a pace that you'll be comfortable with.
2007-03-21 22:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can offer is to not worry. I know it sounds simple and obvious but guys like girls. Hence, you have a one-up on them - remember this!
Your classes shall cause you to interact with guys whether you're ready or not. Most college courses involve group work - everything from "turn to the person next to you and answer quest no. 3 on page 417" to counting off and forming groups that have a mid-term project worth 30% of your grade. After the first, nervous few weeks of classes where everyone is still settling into the coursework, feeling out the teacher, and finding where the classrooms are located - light chatter should start up before and after class. Take part in it, don't miss out on these opportunities to make friends.
Your classes shall provide you with the best structure to network yourself with males - and in this setting you can approach them like any classmate you've had before. You'll have plenty of opportunities and/or excuses to talk with them (what was the homework again? did you do the reading last night? are you going to take the follow-up course next term?).
Don't stress about your lack of dating experience. They can't determine that just by looking at you and there's no reason for them to know unless you want them to.
2007-03-21 23:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Squeak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dated a guy when i was 14 if you are feeling nervas dont feel it depends on the guy how is he I am sure about that he is feeling tence too.I know why are tences i mean there can be many couses like you didnt tell your parents about your date or what will you ware or if you look well or not. Dont feel that be as yourself do a light make up and talk with the guy being cool show him that you are not nervas at all and but dont do it extrem or he will think thta you have so much atitude, look at him being not so attractive by him i mean just pretend. You are gonna make it I am sure about it I just hope this will work out.
2007-03-21 23:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have university ahead, and you can also socialized with men in society which is not always school or college, at work (if you have a job), in clubs,hanging out with boys can teach you alot, be apart of a group who go camping do things like this, and then practice till it makes things perfect! but be careful not to fall in love it might be possible that you find small things very serious take things slowly.
2007-03-21 23:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same boat, except for the part about going to an all-girls school. There are plenty of guys here, but except for wanting one to remove my clothes with his teeth, I don't care about them. Dating isn't important to me. School is.
In your case, just approach a guy the same way you'd approach a potential female friend, then see how it turns out.
2007-03-22 05:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out in the real world and experience life!
2007-03-22 08:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is gud to hav relationship wid opposite sex....Bt do not cross ur limits... Believe me!!!
2007-03-21 22:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by MANDY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can do it ,but see if u don't go beyond th elimits
good luck!
2007-03-21 23:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a good girl.keep it up.dont get worried.
2007-03-21 23:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by kalre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋