My ex dumped me and his reasons were that he was unhappy and didn't feel the same way about but DOESN"T KNOW WHY. I asked him every possible reason things like he felt bored, did I not satisfy him emotionally or sexually, did he felt restricted and wanted freedom, did I change for the worst or is it something that does not involve me, only him like, does he want to be in a relationship, or does he still want to play considering he's 22, or if he found or fancies someone else every possible reason I could think of. But he denies all of it and says I don't know why I am unhappy but I don't feel the same way about you anymore. He admitted to pretend at the end that nothing was wrong which made me feel like a fool. All that time while pretending he was thinking about ending us. He also said that he did want the relationship to work and waited if anything changed but it didn't. What does this mean?
2007-03-21 22:35:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i get pretty unhappy too. and my girlfriend pays for it aswell. im sad and can feel nothing for her. even though i love her completely. anything she says to make me feel better just has no impact on me. and ive broken up with her a few times bcuz of it. even though i havent even wanted to! the first time she just gave me space and i went back to her cuz i was even more sad without her. the next time she just said im not allowed to break up with her and that was that :) id give him a bit of space but let him know youre still there.....but dont wait forever. that isnt fair to you either....
2007-03-21 22:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by grugdugabug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was with me for the most wonderful 2 years of my life. She dumped me just a couple of weeks after the most wonderful Valentines day we could have had together.
We were a bit conservative about sex and never went all the way. It is seven years that I have been alone, but has not been able to figure out till date.
She was 20 when she opted out. we always were together and happy, one day and no apparent reasons spotted and ways parted, it is a vague phenomenon of love that gave me the strongest jolt of the life till date.
So if you reach a conclusion ever, please let me know, so that i can get over with it and be a non single again.
The fear of separation can really affect your chances of starting a new relation again.
Vir
2007-03-21 22:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brave Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to go to the doctor and get on some depressant pills it helps out alot
2007-03-21 22:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he gave you the old 'its not you its me' story....there is a reason he just isn't going to tell you.
2007-03-21 22:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by achronicfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means one thing - he has no feelings for you anymore.
2007-03-21 22:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he dosen't love you,..........
and it takes a big person to come to terms before they really hurt someone.
2007-03-21 22:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by iroc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-21 22:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gio 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋