He has a girlfriend?
he is a really good/close friend of mine but on 3 occassions we have ended up sleeping in the same bed (JUST SLEEPING, such as after a house party) but half way through the night i wake up and he is holding me close and caressing me, on one occassion we even kissed. he said to just pretend that it never happend and he asked me to promise not to tell his girlfriend which i agreed on. when he does this he acts as though he is sleeping but i have a feeling he's not hehe. what does this mean?
continued....ok il give u sum more info we are 18 and he hsnt been able to 'do' anything with his gf because its kind of a 'forbidden' thing eg. they're not alowed to see eachother so there is a lot of sneeking around with them. im not a home recker and he kinda did..well my friends called it 'sexual assult'..at a party i was too drunk and one of his mates, also one of my mates, carried me into a bedroom and the next thing i remember is him on top of me an me pushin him off
2007-03-21 22:06:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only reasons i havnt told his g/f is because she is also a kinda good friend of mine and id rather not say anything in order to keep my friendship with both of them. i know the obvious thing is to avoid the guy at 'parties' seeing this is wen it always seems to happen but how am i suppose to control who comes in my room and my bed wen im sleeping?? how else can i stop this?
2007-03-21 22:19:52 · update #1
well no i dnt like him and when this first started happening i assumed he was just doing wat he culdnt do with his gf
2007-03-21 22:27:21 · update #2
i still seem to see him as a good friend so its not like i can see any changes to the way he acts around me. he just always seems to get close with me wen hes drunk(which he doesnt do to others) and we can stay on the phone for hours talking about nothing or anything....i dnt know if that means anything
2007-03-21 23:46:00 · update #3
only yu can kno if he lyks yu...but if he reali was in2 yu he wuldnt b with his gf .. trust yu'r instincts .. wen yu's are 2geta does he always seem 2 be looking yu'r way or does he find excuses 2 tlk 2 yu (cos then he lyks yu) but if yu dnt lyk him y even risk yu'r friendship 4 sumthyn not even worth it .. i think yu need 2 think serious about this b4 strtn sum drama yu dnt want
2007-03-21 23:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by jessiii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop fooling around with boys who have girlfriends.
The way you females stab each other in the back like this is precisely the reason why the world is ruled by men.
2007-03-22 05:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the beginning of some drama that you should distance yourself from. Who the hell whats to be part of drama. Think about your actions, be honest with yourself and don't hide thins in order to make them better. It only makes things worse.
2007-03-22 05:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does this mean?
Thats a really unusual situation.
With your case, this may not be a usesfull advise, but don't take that kiss litteraly!
Also, don't let it go any further than a kiss unless he breaks up with his girlfreind.
2007-03-22 05:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by lol200hp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want him and at the same time don't want him that way.
if u r not sure, just stay out of the parties and sleepover and avoid any such situation.
and finally be positive.
2007-03-22 06:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. you are a woman who is taken advantage by men and looks like you are enjoying it.. Good for you.
2007-03-22 05:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the question
2007-03-22 05:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by mat l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, do you like him? coz the way I see it, he probably likes you
2007-03-22 05:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to exploit u...avoid him
2007-03-22 05:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by anjana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋