She was talking to her ex (they broke up less than a year ago) and asked him for his phone number, and then told him to meet her at a club, she told me that she was going out for "girls night" I stopped it before it happened, and she lied about it at first, then when she found out how much I knew, she told the truth..... But I'm very hesitant to let her go out to bars with other people and drink, and its nearly impossible to trust her now......... Should I dump her?
2007-03-21 21:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by Nat T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do her one last time, and then dump her. Making her cry gives you bonus points. That hussy can rot.
2007-03-21 21:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutely yes!!! dump her,she`s lying and i dont think she loves you,because if she loves you she will never do that or do things that can hurt you. I guess she`s still interested with her ex or still love him... make a decision now before its too late... There are so many girls out there,who is serious and responsible,and who can give you love the way you wanted it to be....Dont waste time in a relationship that you don`t know where to go...You deserve to be happy too,and if all she can do is to hurt you then dump her...
2007-03-21 21:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ASK her why she was with her ex. People can still be friends with ex's. She probably didn't tell you because of the way you're reacting now. And by the way you don't own her, so you can't stop her from going where she wants.
2007-03-21 21:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might wanna dump her. If she wanted to hang out with her ex, she should have told you. It seems like she didn't tell you that she was going to hang with him for certain reasons & since she didn't tell you, it doesn't seem like you can trust her. You should dump her and move on. It's what's best.
2007-03-21 21:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by _____ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man.. may be she was hiding because she thought u wont understand.. Now if u ll behave like tht, she ll only think she was right and that u cant understand her..
Talk to her and express that u don like her moving out, drinking or talking to her ex and make her believe that she can tell u watever she feels like doing..
Once everything is clear, u can know wat exactly is in her mind and then, i think, u can make a better decision..
2007-03-21 21:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband also like this. He was not happy when i go out with my ex-. Since i know he was unhappy so i will inform him & invite him go out together. He want to follow or not just depend on how much he trust me.
2007-03-21 21:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by sieawei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would because if she is trying to plan behind your back but if you have a mirror in the front of you that you can see all there plans and you stop it and she lies untill she knows that you have her trying to cheat on you then shes gunna get rid of you so yeah
2007-03-21 21:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by tweeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go out.....don't control her....but move on..
2007-03-21 21:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes please.. She's trying to go back to her ex bf.. So let her!!
2007-03-21 21:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋