i have bf who is very much sincere with me but i am also sincere with him thats not the problem the problem is that my parenst would never allow me to marry him i love him very much he also loves my to the extreme but we don't know what to do? he has also cut his hand bcz i just talked about leaving him and he is serious about me i don't know what to do. he is doing gross things like cutting his hand in front of me and writing love letters in blood i am really worried what to do and everybody this is a serious problem i am not joking hey world i neeed ur help plz help me.
2007-03-21 21:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
geeezzz!!! that sounds really scary!!!
are you not scared?
leave him before its too late.. or worse, before he kills you.
2007-03-21 21:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if ye love eachother nobody should be able to stop ye being together.
On the other hand, i think he may need help, people who have to rely on cutting themselves to express themselves have some underlying issues, and honestly the love letters in blood thats downright scary.
Ask him to get help for this, if not leave him, you cant let him use emotional blackmail to keep you with him, it not fair.
I was with someone who kept saying they would kill themselves if i left them, so i know what that kinda blackmail feels like.
I wish you a life full of love and laughter
2007-03-21 21:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincere doesn't mean you need to hurt yourself to prove it. Sincerity is shown in many other ways such as trying his best to make you happy. Eg: Cooking your favourite food, giving you some handicraft stuff he made personally... ..
I think your boyfriend need to seek professional help on his self inflict behaviour also known as "Deliberate Self-Harm Syndrome". He is being over possessive and this could mean problem... ...
Do not hesitate to seek help.
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If he can't love himself, he is of no sound mind to love others... ...
Take care!
2007-03-21 22:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Coco2say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that reall gross honestly those type of guys will kill for u btu will be stalky like that kong movie(if u have seen it)but the point is i think writing love letter in blood is kind of spiritual and could be a covenant or sumting girl if i were u i run as far as possible cos those kind of dudes are the dude that if u ever cheat on them they will kill u and kill himself cos they strongly believe in those shakespeare days
2007-03-21 21:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about his parents ? Are they ready to accept u as their daughter in law.
Moreover if u both are working and are independent, then u can set up ur own dream house.
Ask him not to so such childish things, instead think about the future and how u both can handle it.
2007-03-21 21:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sincerity is only a sham. Ignore about what he does, he is only using an imature nature to achieve what he longed for. Once he grabbed u , he will change his nature gradually.
2007-03-21 21:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gal,dats pretty scary!run for your life coz da guy is crazy.dat shows that if you get hitched and you have a small problem,he'll probably cut you or the kids.that aint love dear.thats adoration and it shows he is very possessive,to the point that one day,he might hurt you.Goodluck!
2007-03-21 21:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by sexy bunny! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you need to leave him because this same **** happend to one of my really good friends and im not gunna tell the story but she left him for this other dude at my party and he got piss and got drunk and cut his wriste and he had a gun at the party but we done took the bullets out and he tryed to shoot the other dude but he had no bullets so but yeah get ride of him
2007-03-21 21:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by tweeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sincere alright,.....sincerely creepy!
Your parents may be on to something, maybe you should listen to them.
2007-03-21 21:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-21 21:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋