I have lately started to hurt myself, on my arms. i am really scared that someone wil find out. I cant just wear long sleeves because i am still in school and i cant wear a jumper wjen it over 35 degrees, people will start to ask questions.
Dont jus tell me stop, i'm already trying, but even if i do, what do i do until the wounds heal.
2007-03-21 20:54:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I cant tell anyone, I literally cant. I CANT even talk to my own family about how i feel, I just get too nervous then dont say anything and loose my chance
2007-03-21 21:01:16 · update #1
Im sorry you cant tell anyone whats going on and why your hurting yourself....no one can honestly understand but yourself....My sister had the same problem...she got seriously tired of it after seeing that its not going away she talked to a therapyst (sp?) and she told her what i just said to you (no one can understand why your doing it but yourself) she told her to stand in the mirror, when no one is around... and to talk to herself looking at herself cause she knew what was wrong and to just say it outloud while your looking at yourself eventually helps...
anyways...if you want to cover it up go to the store and buy this makeup, its a "greenstick" coverup and then buy a yellowstick too....the greenstick covers redness and cut's and the yellow covers bruising....then put regular foundationover it.....
Take care....dont hurt yourself cause all your doing is hurting other people who care :-)
2007-03-21 21:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you leave permanent marks, be prepared to explain if someone asks for the rest of your life. If they're just normal things that will heal, then wear long sleeve for a bit. Those are acceptable for much higher degree's of temperature.
I'm not gonna tell you to stop injuring yourself. It's your choice to do so, but you may want to either do it in less revealing area's or find another way to vent whatever emotion/urge is bringing the actions about.
2007-03-21 22:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey we can only tell you what you already know you are the only person who can really help you.It is a mental thinking thing and you need either a trained counsellor to talk to or maybe some medication and then your life will be so much nicer and you will be happier and then you wont even want to hurt yourself because then you will realise just how special you really are u just cant see it at the moment.Nothing is worth destroying yourself over because you are young you are just having a little trouble please go for real help and then you wont have to think of ways to be deceitful and wounded good luck with it wear a thin long sleeved shirt
2007-03-21 21:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl?whats ur problem?try to approach some1..if u feel shy..write ur problem is a piece of paper and then tear it in2 pieces instead of hurting yourself.okie?or listen to all the encouragement songs or fast beat songs and NOT to sentimental or sad songs! and gurl,there are many people with much more worst problems.always think that u r always better than the others!
2007-03-21 21:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by guyz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a note, put it under their door at night. See a doctor. Phone 1800 dont cut.
2007-03-22 00:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatly talk to someone...being alone is only going to make the problem worse. i know you don't want to hear stop it, but that's the only way the wounds are gonna start to heal.
2007-03-21 21:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ambah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try a liquid foundation over the wounds to hide them. And if you still continue to cut, I would suggest doing it in a place where no one can see.
2007-03-21 20:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by icecreamcafegraphics 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wear what you've been wearing, but see a counselor...you got a problem and do need help....I'm serious and I care.
2007-03-21 20:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to see a docter.
and tell ur friends that
your sensative to the UV rays. (sun)
2007-03-21 20:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oohhh honey u raelly need 2 just talk to som1...praying 2 god/jeasos will also help...plz get help!!! :(
2007-03-21 20:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋