How dose a person mend a broken heart and soul?

Question

I got hurt at work I lost my car my mom almost died and my now my friend is dating somone I had I crush on.

Answer 1

Well just be happy that your mom did not die, becuase everything else that you mentioned you'll get over. You'll get another car, you'll have a crush on someone else. (besides, why didn't you just make a move on the person that your friend is now dating? He beat you to the punch)
Just try to stay postive. It's really not that bad. Tomorrow is a new day and remember that time usually heals ALL wounds. No matter what they may be.
Good Luck

Answer 2

with great effort getting hurt at work is the start of a bad run at least you are alive and your mum did not lose you
second there will be another car when u get back on your feet again and the main thing is you still have your mother so try to look at it this way it could have been a lot worse so try to be grateful for what u do have. I understand where u are coming from i was hurt at the age of 22yrs now I'm 46yrs and never got over the injuries but i still have my family which is what really matters girlfriends/boyfriends may come and go but your family will always be there for you and you will meet a nice person soon who will feel the same way as you do, just hang in there and try to think positive nobody likes a wet blanket so smile anyway good luck

Answer 3

Seems you had a lot of bad events lately... your car's material, job you can always change, from what you are saying, your mum is still there, you did not lose her, that's good news! And for your crush, time will help you get over it. Come on, you're going through a bad zone, you'll reach the other side. Keep it up!

Answer 4

Time......and try, and I know how very hard it is when everything is going to ****, but try, to think positive. Laugh whenever you can, take some joy in little things, If you dwell on the bad, if you stay depressed, if you start having a pity party, then those negative thoughts make more negative things happen.....not a joke........you attract what you feel.... you attract what you think..... Its almost evil what thoughts can do if you dwell on the bad........ If you act as thought life is getting better (even if it isn't yet), if you appear cheerful even when your not, you attract those things back to you.......Anyway even if this sounds like a load of BS to you it does feel better to act cheerful than to act depressed......I know what I'm talking about....I have lived in hell, and it kept getting worse and worse until I decided enough is enough. I still have stuff on my plate, but a least now I feel like I have some control instead of it controling me. I want to live.... for a long time I thought it would never get better and I wanted to die.... I thought that would make it all go away,,,, but i like living, I like the wind on my face, I like rain and the sound of birds and the smell of flowers and maybe this is the only place to experience that, so if I was going to stay around then dam it I was going to act like I was having a good time, and pretty soon, one little thing at a time started turning around, and at least I started feeling better. I still have a lot of crap around me but instead of it burying me, I am doing some **** kicking......

Answer 5

I know what you're going thru, been there done that ,best cure for everything is meditation.Don't get down about today other people are starving in the world and don't even have a roof over there head look at the bright side of life just being part of it .

Answer 6

i found the best solution is to do other activities to take your mind off of it,and the old saying is true time heals all types off pain,so if you find something to take your mind off of it,time will go by and you'll be okay

Answer 7

Everything you have mentioned is replaceable, except your mother, I would be counting my blessings she did not die.

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