Most everyone has arguments with their parents. I certainly hated my mother from time to time. I tried to love her, but it was very difficult.
Some parents are just people doing their best, and conflict arises because they care.
Others are people who had children, but are not really acting as "parents" because they don't interact much with the children due to personal problems or mental illness or drugs. I think this makes it really hard on the child to be understanding and forgiving. That feeling of hate can take longer to get past.
Whether you have good parents, or those people who just happened to have children, hate will only end up hurting you.
2007-03-21 20:56:40
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answered by siddoly 3
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This just part of growing up.I have found out that the one you argue with the most,you are probably a lot like.That may scare you but it is most always true.You will always disagree with them through your life.That's what makes you who you are.Individual.Hate should not be part of your vocab when it comes to your parents( or anyone else for that matter ).You have only one set of them and two sets of grandparents.Never take either for granted.Next time you have words.Step back and see what it is you are really fighting about.It probably isn't worth the harsh words.
2007-03-22 00:48:55
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answered by Christal 3
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when i do argue with my parents i try to not say anything I'll regret later on. My parents gave me life, shelter and they'll always be there for me so I can't hate them, I just dislike how unreasonable they are being at the time.
My mom yelled once at me "I hate you!"
& I yelled back at them 'I hate you'
and my mom started to cry. I feel really bad because my mother says she was just worried and concerned and sometimes says things she doesn't mean. She apparently thought she failed as a parent. I was a rebellious child.
2007-03-21 20:36:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Hate that such a strong word to use about the ones you feed you, take care of you, give you money, put a roof over your head, love you, get you out of trouble,etc. There are kids who would love to have parents and look at your ungrateful as$, asking a question like this. Good luck to you when you become a parent.
2007-03-21 20:34:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Ya its the comparable everywhere yet Marks r not the only standards of judging the skill of a individual Its the wide-unfold character that concerns i might Say purely jeep ur recommendations clean in analyze and u can score properly So parents wont scold U N u Can Spend Time On different issues additionally.
2016-10-19 07:59:41
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answered by ? 4
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me and my dad always argue over stupid things like when i get in trouble we have are points of why im right ahnd why hes right. we argue all the time and sometimes i fell like leaving home and i do hate him sometimes bu is worth it at the end cause we have a big cuddle and a kiss saying sorry to each other its all worth it not becasue of the argueing but a the end when we say how much we care about eachother
2007-03-21 21:57:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Arguments are really part of a family...and with you and your parents different likes or different beliefs then you will definitely have some arguments with them and hate them sometimes but still they are your parents and eventually you'll just realize that they just want whats good for you...
2007-03-21 21:22:32
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answered by Selfie 2
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As children, we are told to respect our parents and not argue back. So yes, there will be days we argue but I just keep quiet and try to forget the whole matter and sleep through the night and forget about it in the day. Yes, you can hate them but they are still your parents.
2007-03-21 20:53:58
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answered by Ashley 4
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Everyone argues with the parents sometime in their lives. But you could never hate your parents.
2007-03-21 20:34:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone does-- It is your right as a child to feel that way sometimes. Later on, whether what they did was right or wrong, you will understand why they felt they needed to do it. Unfortunately, when we have children, no one give us a manual on how to raise them right. Ther is only the hope that we do well, and that our children turn out to be happy, succesful adults.
2007-03-21 20:36:09
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answered by PEGGY S 7
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