Ok, i'll try to keep this short.
I was really, really into this girl. Let's call her Della. We talked, we hung out, even went to England on this school trip together. I've known her forever, and we used to date, but it was so long ago...like 4 years ago (Junior High). She IS REALLY REALLY SHY and CONSERVATIVE, but i know for a fact she really liked me.
Everything was going really well, but then it ALL BLEW UP, or should i say...fizzled. This OTHER GIRL kinda pounced on me.
I won't go into details, but before i knew it, i was in a serious relationship with this other girl from my church. I'm not used to girls being that aggressive, so it was completely new. Anyways, she knew that i still had feelings with Della, and she asked me to stop seeing/talking to her COMPLETELY. I know it was dumb, but i agreed.
Now, it's been nearly 5 months and Della and I haven't really talked at all. She doesn't know all the facts, and just thinks i randomly ditched her. Does she hate me?
2007-03-21 20:18:35 · 11 answers · asked by jerry p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To extend to this, I see her almost everyday at school, but it's just quick hello/goodbye sort of thing. She's been kinda cold to me because our friendship just died, but i'm not really sure it was even a friendship. There was so much chemistry there, and now i feel like it's all gone to waste...
2007-03-21 20:33:22 · update #1
well let me tell u this. u dont kno, i dont kno and everybdy else who answered that think they kno are jus guessing anywayz in order for you to kno and at the same time get to talkin to her, i think u should go up to her and talk about the whole situation and get everything cleared because the way your doing things now, you two will just always be awkward around each other n not talk to each other ever. if u wanna kno how she feels then ask her and work on reconnecting again. yea i kno its really hard and u dont kno wut to say but then sumbody has to break the ice first. i dont think she hates u its just shes confused about whether your still cool with her. honestly i think u shouldve started WAY WAY earlier like a day or two after the breakup but then well its better to start later then never.
hope everything between you and Della be cool. good luck man.
2007-03-21 20:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. RNC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well let me ask you this has della tried talking to you these past 5 months or have you tried talking to her? and if you tried talking to her did she respond back to you? if she didnt respond back to you or didnt even put the effort on talking to you these 5 months i think she is upset with you...i know for a fact she doesnt hate you but i think she is hurt because you kind of just stopped talking to her without letting her know what was going on and the facts...i would try to apologize to her and explain everything to her...put yourself in her shoes and how would you feel if she did that to you?! you know! let della know that you are still there for her, that she will always be your friend or something like that. good luck! i hope everything works out!
2007-03-21 20:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you ditched her for another girl. She probably doesnt know it all and was really hurt by it. You messed up and need to come clean to her. But stop being a puppet to your other gf. I am very good friends with my ex and my husband didnt like it at first (when we were dating) but he learned to see that there was nothing there. So if theres nothing there there is no reason to stop hanging out and if there is you need to look at that yourself
2007-03-21 20:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by resqshanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you were dumb and stupid to have ditched her because first and foremost you were friends. Tell her that you still really like her and want her back in your life. Say you want her as something more than a friend but would like to take things slow to earn back her friendship and trust.
2007-03-21 20:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counting on the a while....... From 10-13 - "Yeah? what's a Virgin"? From 14-18 - "Yeah?! Whew!" From 19-40 - "Yeah, suitable" From 40-one-80 - "Yeah? i'm going to be suitable there!" From 80 one-ninety one - "Eh? Your sticks a furnin? Huh? From ninety two-102 - "Yeah? what's a Virgin"?
2016-10-19 07:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care about her. If she didn't put out then keep it moving. Trust me, when you hit college you will be knee deep in poon-tang and you what even give a squirrel left nut about her.
2007-03-21 20:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's probablly confused right now. you had her trust and it will most likely be impossible to win that back.
2007-03-21 20:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by knerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably does but being that she is nice and concervertive she might have room to forgive and understand you.
2007-03-21 20:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her, give her a goofy smile and let out a LOUD fart. Chicks dig farters.
2007-03-21 20:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Listen to WALLY if you want to.
2007-03-21 20:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by sweetnbitter 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋