i have a mad swooning crush on this guy that i work with, slight problem....he's married, i know shame on me for even thinking about him that way, but i can't help it. and plus i know he's married but he gives off really mixed signals, what can i, or what should i do?
2007-03-21 20:07:06 · 10 answers · asked by Professor Crazyass 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can find someone to love you & only you. This man has a wife, now if he didn't, it would be a different story. Just do your thang, and let him do his. He definately doesn't seem like a keeper.
2007-03-21 20:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mz Laudah 907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so in love with a guy that I can't have.I feel every ounce of what you're feeling.You feel helpless when you know that he could be the one and there's nothing you can do except tell him how you feel.But,then how do you know how he would react?He may be in love with his wife and may get pissed if you tell him how you feel.He may have a family and you don't ever want to break up a family especially if his wife is violent.Leave if alone and keep those feelings bottled unless he comes to you and gives you a green light okay.
2007-03-22 03:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by marcelleaandbryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of feeling will fade away pretty soooon.
Take me for example.... I had thought I was madly in "love" with this person for nearly 4years. I was always thinking, dreaming and talking about the person.
And I would always tell my friend that I was in love and all those crap. My friend told me that it wasn't love...I was just obessed with the person because we were in the same school and could see the person everyday.
My friend was soooo true. Because after the 4 years and when we have graduated...I hardly saw my crush ever again and my feelings for him slowly started fading.
So it is possible that you are just obessed with him. It could be love..if even after you have separated from him , you still can't stop thinking about him
2007-03-22 03:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your really wasting your time. Dont settle for no married man. You wont get what you want in life becuse he will be too busy giving it to someonelse. The best tthing to do is tell him to have a niecc life and walk away. You know very well you cant have him so why are you sitting there and wasting your time. Find another suitor that has time for you.
2007-03-22 03:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have some very helpful advice for you.....run like hell in the opposite direction of this guy. just stay away completely, he's taken even though you think your in love , its not going to do you good. its not fair to you either. try to let this crush pass and find some one who can be true to you!!!
2007-03-22 03:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by southernspring2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah?... Well this is your first test!
Fail it and you'll go through it again and again... each time the stakes will get higher!
2007-03-22 03:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the thought. You don't want to break-up a marriage, do you?
2007-03-22 03:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most guys need to cheat - nothing to worry about
2007-03-22 03:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont do that..................mabye he is just flirting and thats all..................and at the end u are the one who get hurt............
2007-03-22 03:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ignore him.
2007-03-22 03:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋