i found out when other woman call me,,, he admit but choose to stay with me bcoz of our baby, claim he love that woman more than me,..he also admit having unprotected sex and also risk me,,,does he deserve a chance? pls, advice, now our baby is 1 and half yrs. old, would it bad for a child growing up not having a father around?
2007-03-21 19:07:32 · 5 answers · asked by icy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered it all. He is only staying with you because of the baby, which means he wont treat you well, which means you will be miserable and your child will suffer because of it. Its not fair for the baby to have to grow up with a mommy who chose to keep a man who makes her sad. Your baby deserves a mom who is bursting at the seams with happiness. You may be sad for awhile, but you will get over him, WAY over him, and you'll wonder why you put up with a "boy" who cant say no to his baser instincts. A real man wont use cheating to tell you that he wants out of a relationship. He will respect you and tell you up front. You need to focus on your baby. And just because you aren't with the father, doesn't mean the baby wont have a father, you just wont be in a romantic relationship. If he loves the child, he will still be a father. Seriously, walk away from this guy. Let him be with someone who makes him happy and for GODS sake do the same for YOU. He does NOT deserve your forgiveness.
2007-03-21 19:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound really horrible, and I'm sorry but... is he worth this? And what are you worth? What is your baby worth? Doesn't he/she deserve a mother who is happy? You can pretend to be happy with the father of your child, or you can be truly happy with or without him. If you choose to stay with him, it will be your decision, meaning: you also choose the consequences. His cheating is not about you. This is about him and what drives him to not only cheat, but to hurt the mother of his child this way. He put you in danger - you, the mother of his child! What will happen to your child if you get sick??? A man who is capable of that is capable of anything and are you going to stick around to find out his what that means? It's up to you - this is about your capabilities. As a mother and a woman. There are inspiring single mothers out there in this world, and you won't be the first to be one... there have always been capable women before you and there will more after you. It all depends on what you are willing to put up with personally. You're worth more - the choice is yours.
Good luck!
Sincerely,
Angel
2007-03-22 02:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Immanycegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him...
Find a better man to be husband & father...
2007-03-22 02:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better looking tail,
2007-03-22 02:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its horrible...
2007-03-22 03:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋