ok well my girlfriend likes to drink and party and do drugs but i dont. we are only 15 and have been going out for 4 months. What do i do to make her happy?
2007-03-21 19:07:00 · 14 answers · asked by ɹǝʇsuoɯ ǝıʞooɔ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be careful. I knew of a couple like that. they ended up getting married and her cheating on him. because when she would go out parting as you say. she would meet guys. it ended very bad for the guy he was like you always trying to make her happy. then she kicked him out. brought the other guy to the place..she was no longer living with him..but every time she needed some favor called him. the man went into such a depression that he killed himself. all for a sl** that wasn't worth his time of day.
2007-03-21 19:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing. im the same way. i dont drink, but i go to parties once in a while. Most of the guys i like, like to party.
i say, just do what u want. dont pretend to like something if u dont. if she gets mad that u wont go to parties with her or whatever, then forget it. Find someone with more things in common with u.
good luck :)
~J
2007-03-22 02:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt' seem like you can make her happy without making yourself unhappy... if you both dont want to compromise... I think you might need to break up... I'm with you.. I dont party... I dont drink... I dont look for guys that do... I would have nothing in common with a guy that does... if you care enough about her maybe find a way to compromise... otherwise I think you should move on...find someone more like you who doesn't like to party. I dont think you should start partying because she does, you could really screw up your life if you do...
2007-03-22 02:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to make others happy, you need to figure out what it is that is going to make you happy. If you spend your life depending on others for your happiness, you're going to end up a very lonely, unhappy young man. It appears as if your girlfriend has found what makes her happy. And its apparent that the two of you have very different goals and values. You are going to end up being her enabler and very unhappy, or you're going to cut your losses and move on to someone that is more compatible with you.
2007-03-22 02:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have much in common and you are only 15... let it go.. there are many interesting people out there to be in arelationship with.... or if you think you really like her, why don't you try living like she does for a change... you may find you like it, cos at 15 You don't really know what you like!
2007-03-22 02:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW TRUST ME. speaking from experience i went through the same thing. Believe me if she can't respect herself she won't respect you. These are the type of woman who cheat then blame it on the alcohol. Don't be dumb and get this drunk druggy prego you will regret it for life.
2007-03-22 02:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, dont do anything you dont wanna do. Especially to make her happy. Maybe find someone else?
2007-03-22 02:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by lozzy_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. You need to make YOURSELF happy. Find someone more into things you like.
2007-03-22 02:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude she aint worth the trouble - anyone doing that at your age is going to be a messed up adult... get out while you can!!
2007-03-22 02:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by FlowerGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her do her thing and you find a girl more to your liking...
2007-03-22 02:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋