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i like this guy,and i have a feeling he likes me too but is really shy. we have been talking for a while now, and all of a sudden like a week ago, he got a girlfriend, i dont know what to do? he still talks to me, and i still have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend.....how do i deal with that? am i allowed to persue that? i just want to ask him to the movies, or something,but am I going to scare him away?.......i need help

2007-03-21 19:06:05 · 5 answers · asked by socrbabe 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well since he got the girlfriend after starting to get to know you and it didn't go past a friendship for him, that's all he may feel towards you, "a friendship".... If he wanted to have you as a girlfriend he seems to know how to get one already as he has one now..(not so shy) Do not push yourself into his life as anything but a friend. If you get between him and his girlfriend you may loose your friendship forever. If he is meant to be yours He needs to make that choice with no pressure from you. Also you have to think just how close of a friendship did/do you have if you never knew of the other female?? Let him come to you, but only start a relationship if the other female is totally out of the picture and you know this for sure. Don't be the other woman for any man. Good luck and keep your options open your someone special is out there looking for you now.

2007-03-21 19:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kris W 1 · 0 0

Look for the lesson in this... which is, shyness is a hindrance and when you see an opportunity, take it! Don't be afraid of making mistakes - that's where all the fun is and the growth as a human being! And in regards to the girlfriend... do you really want the drama or are you just mad at yourself for missing out? Be patient. This will work itself out.

Good luck!

~Angel

2007-03-21 19:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Immanycegirl 1 · 0 0

No, do not ask him to the movies. Your setting yourself up for heartbreak. You only think he likes you. If he liked you so much, why would another girl be his gf and you are not. Just think about that. Anyhow, I wouldnt ask him anything. i think its better to find someone that does not have a gf. Someone available the same way you are available. If you decide to go out with this guy chances are it isnt going to amount to anything and your going to get your heart broken. He may just run right back to his gf. Good luck on your decision. ynthing.t c

2007-03-21 19:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

girl...if you like him be a ***** steal him away who cares if he has a girlfriend take him to the movies...a scary one then when its a scary part pretend your scared and grab his hand

2007-03-21 19:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by cutiebabe66048@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0 0

It is obvious that he never thought of you that way, or your would be with him now instead of someone else. Move on!!

2007-03-21 19:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

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