Do any of you have closure?

Question

Did any of you ever meet the love of your life who is your soulmate and find you had to go your separate ways because of fate?

Tell me your ordeal.

For Ravin:
Thanks for opening my eyes on the fate issue. On Love, I feel that it's more of a noun.

Everybody else, I thank you for your support on closure.

Answer 1

whew, i need to get this off my chest. it was april of 1997 and i was dancing at a bar and he came in with some guys he worked with. he was from Kansas doing a roofing job here in Indiana at a pizza hut, anyway as soon as i saw Him i realized we both had basically matching tattoos of tiger/panthers on us. we sat together a few nights in a row and partied got along great and i asked Him if He would take me back to Kansas with Him and He said yes. someone must of told my exhusband what i was planning because He called my work and said some things that immediately got me laid off/fired. i never saw Kansas again even though i knew where he was staying in town and where He was working. every spring i think of Him and wonder if He thinks about me too.. theres never any closure and there never will be. ive thought about calling work to see if there are any messages for me (after 10 years, yeah right) and even thought about getting the name of the company he works for from the pizza hut job, but it wont happen. He was just someone i crossed paths with, connected deeply with, and then He was gone. just a memory now. i hope we can meet again in heaven someday because i truly believe in soulmates.

Answer 2

For one thing, if you feel you met the love of your life, there is no way you guys will be going separate ways unless its by death. Any other reasons, maybe you need to really soul search in finding off if this person is really the love of your life. Soulmates cant live without each other. Most of the time. Fate usually separates only by death.

Answer 3

I found closure by embracing the people who are in my life. They are all my soulmates. I had to stop looking for more and be happy with what I have. Before I ignored lessons from those I have a lot to learn from.

Answer 4

I am sorry to learn of your loss, i don't consider I have had something alongside the ones strains occur to me, (a few miscarriages occur and it's only like a usual interval) for which I am thankful. I relatively have no idea how I could manage it and recognise I could constantly blame myself :(. A lot of respondants have indicated that it's ordinary and no longer always a fault factor. There is a announcing "matters occur for a cause" for which I consider however no longer constantly comprehend why a few matters occur.... I adored and loved each and every second of my toddlers developing within of me and used to be very lucky for them to be born healthful, even though both of them used to be born with a incapacity I could have adored them and in no way no longer desired them... I do see households round with little one/ren with disabilities and consider that could be soooo difficult. So perhaps as terrible as it's going to appear it perhaps a hidden blessing. I am nonetheless of little one bearing age and am no longer really definite I am performed with being pregnant and toddlers and perhaps I will take a look at once more???? If the unlucky did ever occur I relatively wish I could flip the poor right into a constructive and nonetheless have fun the little one, i could begin by way of planting a tree/plant some thing and nuture it and watch it develop as my little one could have, at the due date (birthday) each and every 12 months I could gentle a candle and take into account my angel little one... oh that is so unhappy I do wish you'll be able to uncover a approach to aid your self heal and rapidly. Sending hugs n smiles your means...