i have a friend (guy) that i think i am starting to like..i am so scared to tell him becuase then things between us might turn a litte wierd and i don't want that..so should i tell him how i feel or don't tell him how feel.......we knew each other scence the 3rd grade and i never looked at him this way until the nineth grade and we are now in the tenth grade.so i practically liked him scence our freshman year...he had only 2 girlfriends in his whole entire life and i only had 2 boyfriends in my entire life...he treats his girls so good and when we talk i feel like he likes me and then when i ask him why don't he go out with someone he tells me that there is this girl he knew scence the 3rd grade that he likes but he won't tell me who it is and he is scaerd that she might not feel the same way about him..and the wierd thing is i am the only girl he has known scence the 3rd grade.so the main question i need answered is should i tell him that i like and see if i am that girl he is about?
2007-03-21 18:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends should be honest with each other.
We all have the fear of being rejected. At your age, it is compiled by insecurity and a general lack of experience. Well, lucky for you, I have had lots of experience and what I am going to advise you to do is the result of these experiences.
You can approach this in a manner that leaves you a back door. Not that you will need it but, you probably think you will.
If you are not too shy to speak to him face to face, do it in person. If you think you are going to get tongue tied, write it in a friendship card and hand it to him. Here are the words.
I have something to say to you. It scares me in some ways. But not enough to keep me silent...
We have been friends for such a long time, it is hard to remember a time when you were not here with me. Our friendship means the world to me. I would not dream of doing or saying anything that would cause a conflict between us. That is why I need to preface this by saying, I am totally happy with what we have between us and if this is where we are to stay, I will be content to be your friend for the rest of our lives.
This next part is where I am going to have difficulty. I pray that it comes out right...
Do you ever lay awake at night and think of me? I do you. I find myself wondering if we should look beyond where we are. We have a great friendship. But, maybe a boy and a girl that care this much for each other are meant to be more than friends... should I stop here and forget all of this nonsense or would you like me to continue?
Would you like to hold my hand as much as I would like to hold yours. If I were to look deeply into your eyes, could you look back into mine, without turning away? If you can, you will see what I am trying to say to you right now and I will be able to stop shaking.
If you say nothing, I will have to assume that you are happy with how things are and I'll accept that from you. However, if you can honestly say Yes, that is all I need to hear to make me the happiest girl in the world.
2007-03-21 18:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by terterryterter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are the girl he is talking about. It's scary to think that you could lose your longtime friendship with him, but you'll never know how he feels about you if you don't tell him how YOU feel; plus, it will just continue to eat away at you and it may end up affecting your friendship anyway.
So tell him.. something good could come out of it! And if nothing good comes, then it just wasn't meant to be. Hopefully you two will still be able to remain friends either way.
Good luck! :D
2007-03-22 01:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a strange bird, but may be the one that is/has been in Love w/you.
2007-03-22 01:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18 ... Tell him that you want to see his man meat.
If you are under 18 ... Tell him you are under 18 and you should wait to see his man meat until you are both over 18
2007-03-22 01:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nick the Dick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you blind? he obviously wants you. wat chances are there that theres another girl he likes and has known since 3rd grade. he is showing you in a mysterious way because he is too awkward to say it straight forwardly. listen to me, tell him how you feel. and i KNOW he feels the same way about u
2007-03-22 01:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if me i will tell him about i starting like him... after i tell it i will feel more free nothing weird anymore between me and him. besides i just wait for him to answer my feel to him
2007-03-22 01:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by maggie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋