Need a girls point of view....does she like me?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

now the other day i asked her to the movies, and she goes"will you be paying?"...well we never ended up going that night since she got really tired, so i took her back home and left.I asked her this week if she would wnna go movies my shout , and she said she wont be going out for at least 2.5 weeks since shes so wasted from study....what should i make of this?.....i feel she is just playing me along now?....what do you guys think?one really odd thing is she talks to me when she needs help, but other than that i have to talk to her first for her to start talking to me.....via txt/msn etc...is she playing hard to get?, or is she just playing me around....im thinking of not saying anything to her and see how she reacts?..

Answer 1

It sounds like this girl does like you, but she is having trouble communicating! I would remain friends with her and talk to her when she wants to, but don't obsess over her or revolve around her, girls like to know that the guy they like is capable, strong, independent and not needy or desperate. Aswell as funny and caring... sounds like you have got most of it covered, just need to chill out a bit. let her know that she can ask you out whenever she likes and don't invite her again until then! cheers and good luck.

Answer 2

Humm, I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm confused!! Haha. But I would say that she does like you, and that she may be scared or confused. Very confused. But I think that if you ignored her calls, and such for like 2 days and see what she does. But if she starts ignoring you, I would starting to her again. Because it sounds like you dont want to lose her. Just see how many times she tries to get a hold of you, and in what ways. That may help let you see what is going on in her head, or if she likes you for sure.

Answer 3

by all the things you say it seems as if she likes you but with us girls it can be hard to tell. it means something that she talks to you about her problems for sure because it shows that she trusts you. she could be playing hard to get and she could also really be burnt out from her studying. the best thing i can say is to just straight up tell her you like her and ask her how she feels about you. it can be scary as hell to face rejection but then at least you can know instead of worrying all the time.

Answer 4

maybe she's using you or maybe she just wants to be friends and slow down your friendship. If u like her then buy her fave. flowers and write something sweet like hope you have a good day. or etc. maybe shell grow onto you.

Answer 5

greater chance than not she likes you but she could be stringing you along ask her out see what happens

Answer 6

oh yeah... she does.

no doubts about dat but you have not been playing your part.

you are the man, you have to make the first real move.