I know this guy for about a year now, he use to be my boss. Where i still work, but he went to do his own thing at a different location, but we still keep in touch. Lately I notice that my feelings for him have been getting stronger, and stronger. But i'm not sure how to go about it. He his so cute, so smart, so sweet, so everything. He makes my stomach turn, but in a good way. I think all of you know what i mean. But what can I do or say to find out, but without missing up the friendship that we have. I don't want things to miss up, if it turns out he doesn't think of me in that way. I once told him that i was into only one person, he asked me who. But i never got the courage to tell him that it is him. So now everytime we talk on the phone or we see one another he ask me who, I so want to tell him. But SO SCARED!!!! What should I Do. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 18:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by SYDORAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go for it and ask him out. Otherwise you'll always wonder what might have been. If he's a good guy, it won't ruin your friendship if he's not into you. No guts, no glory!
2007-03-21 18:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by gemgirl38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's continually asking you who then he has an idea and probably feels the same way about you. you should joke around about it in a subtle way and see what his reactions are. bring it up in a good, laughing atmosphere. kinda hint. if he's thinking the same as you, he'll get the hint and throw it back. but definitely don't just come out and tell him, that could really turn a guy off. ha ha and don't listen to gemgirl. if you come out like that and he's not into you, he's going to feel very uncomfortable around you and your friendship will be lost.
2007-03-22 01:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say I know how scary it can be. But rest assured, I have a little something for you. Two easy words: body language. If he is primping in front of you (straightening his tie, brushing imaginary hair or dust off his shoulders) then it's a good guess he likes you. If he places his hands on his hips or hooks them in his belt, those are signs he is subconsciously trying to appear "bigger" or more masculine to you. If he is facing you in a sitting group (around a table for example) or right beside you with his upper leg towards you when he has them crossed, that's another good sign. There are several more good signs here at this web address below.
2007-03-22 01:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lost Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out somewere, don't make it sound like a date, you take him somewere fun or somkinda place he likes and just have fun with him as friends. keep doing it more and more. touch him a lot like hitting him and saying "oh stop it". give him comploments, food, and the best thing ever a massage.
actually a girl telling me she likes me would turn me on.
2007-03-22 01:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him by an e-mail if you are scared or you can ask someone to tell him
2007-03-22 01:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by NinA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋