These guys always wave to me when i see them. I like one of their friends. I want them to keep waving and i want to talk to them but i am really shy. What do i do to keep them waving and make them come over and talk to me??
2007-03-21 18:31:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Roxxy, it's hard to do what seems so obvious, but when you are really that shy you are stuck. But hey, you don't have to be :) There are a few easy thing you could do. First choice, wave back! On the other hand, are they in your age range? You still seem very young, so be careful. Never go with all of them if they ask. Not by yourself, anyway. If there is one guy in particular that you like, try to make eye contact. At the least, it will let him know that you are interested. A quick friendly wave back and then keep on your way would probably be best for you though. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy. Being shy can be overcome when you meet the right person. Don't beat yourself up over it. If it would help, and these guys "hang out" at the same place, next time take a friend along. It might be easier for you to then respond to their waves as you won't feel so alone and frightened. But like I said in the beginning, DO NOT go with them if you don't really know them and they ask you to join them. Four against you, it just doesn't sound safe. Even if they don't have any bad intentions, it's always better to be safe than sorry. Taking a friend or an older sibling/family member along when you know you will see them and then making your move (waving back or whatever you chose) would be my safest advice at this time. Again, don't be ashamed of being shy. Sometimes our body just knows and acts for us... Your first step was to come here and ask for help. The rest will follow. Hang in there and good luck. MsB
2007-03-21 18:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by MSB1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping smiling and waving. You could even try waving them over to you, but at that point be prepared for conversation.
2007-03-21 18:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wave back, and get up the nerve to go talk to them. It may help to know what you are going to say ahead of time. The risk of embarassing yourself is far outweighed by the risk of never getting to know someone who could very well end up being the light of your life. Good luck!
2007-03-21 18:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to be putting your focus on THE guy you're interested in, instead of "THEM".
Why would you care if his friends kept waving? You should just make sure that you stare at the one you're interested in and if you know his name say, "Hi Jack". That will let him know you're into him.
You sound a bit young though, so make sure you're not setting yourself up for trouble and don't be talked into going anywhere that's not public.
2007-03-21 18:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ya so!! If he used to be grew to become off via it, he might have simply neglected you and no longer teased you approximately it. Tell him, he'd be an fool to not realize you had been crushing on him, and your simply sorry it took you writing a be aware to determine it out. But you gotta say it with a grin and somewhat attractive perspective. Don't act bizarre or diffrent....Trust me, he teased you approximately it, it is good enough. Now pass ask him what he is gonna do approximately it, or, I decide on the daring approach, and simply deliver him a gigantic ole kiss and get it over with...Good Luck
2016-09-05 11:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by pizzaro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time they wave at you...wave them over to you. and strike up a convo, like "so you wave every time but you cant com over and say hi to a girl whats up with that?", and then just go with the flow.
2007-03-21 18:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Youll See 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quit waving and give them the come here signal. :)
2007-03-21 18:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tim S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wave back, smile, and use your finger and motion them over!
2007-03-21 18:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by invisiblekisses2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear roxxy
You have the best smile us it when ever you see them how could they not want to be with you.
2007-03-21 18:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a 6 pack of beer and say... I have 5 too many beers and only need one... and will one or all you like to share them?
2007-03-21 18:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋