my ex bf broke up wif me 3 months ago and we hav talked after then (we work together) but i began moving on and then he went into hospital n nearly died and i now like another guy. but i still like my ex bf and hes revealed to me that he likes me too but now i hav another guy i like and i dont want to hurt him but i dunno if i should go back to my ex because i like him ive told my ex that im really close friends wif another guy and ive told the other guy that my ex wants me back? WHAT should i do i like them both and i dont want to hurt either of them? Who should i choose? im 16 btw
2007-03-21 18:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say keep them both AS FRIENDS. Soo much emphasis is put on having a boyfriend or a girlfriend these days. When I say "friends", I mean just that. No kissing, sexing, etc. A peck on cheek or a quick hug. That will also let you see where the guy is coming from and you'll know who to root out for a future "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship.
You are young. Guard your heart. There is nothing wrong with getting to know guys and THEN go from there.
You're confused, so why choose either. Stay single and take this time to get to know the opposite sex and how they think.
2007-03-21 18:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the new guy and stop telling each guy what the other is saying. You're creating drama when there doesn't need to be any. You and your ex broke up for a good reason. Remember that reason. It's easy to slip back in with an ex. It's comfortable and familiar but, the reason(s) you two broke up will probably still be there. It easier to just keep up what you've got going and move on. It's also a good idea to stop talking to your ex. You're never going to move forward if you keep talking to him.
I'll bet money if you were alone, your ex wouldn't be all that interested in you. Where was he when you were in the hospital and almost died? Who was there for you then? Tell him you're glad he likes you and then tell him bye bye. You don't have to be rude but, you don't need to turn your life upside down on the off chance that your ex wants you back. Odds are, he's just seeing if he can break you two up.
2007-03-22 01:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
at this age, u can manage 2 friends well in short term and later on u can decide which one to choose.
2007-03-22 01:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋