i'm really trying to get over my ex of about a 1 yr and a month..i've put all the things he bought me..the roses, stuffed animals and letters away..so it's easier not to think about him.
last night i told him how i was feeling..well i typed it in a blog and he read it..which i wanted him to do because you can only keep your true feelings hidden for so long. he said that he doesn't understand why i'm so hung up on what we had and that he's "sooo over it"..[it was a special 2-3 months, apparently not special enough to him] but now i'm just really embarassed and i've been avoiding him all day. should i just stop being friends with him all together? what should i do??
2007-03-21 18:21:14 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him. He's an ape. Wait for someone who appreciates what a nice woman you are. Someday he'll realize how sweet you are but it will be too late.
2007-03-21 18:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For now, just ignore him, move on. I know it sounds a lot easier than it is, but it would be good for both of you. Maybe later you guys can be friends. Don't avoid him, that might just make him seek you out to ask what's going on. Just don't talk to him if you don't have to and see who else is out there. He probably wasn't that great of a boyfriend anyway if he's telling you he's "sooo over it". Focus your energy on other friends and try to keep busy. You'll meet a guy who will treat you right someday!
2007-03-22 01:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough spot to be in. But girl, i know how hurt it is when someone let go and you still hook on that person. I understand because i`ve been through it. but good thing about my situation is i didnt stay friends with him or anything. I dont think we even break up we just stop talking. and thats a big help for me because i dont have to see him walking around or doing something and just reminds me of how things used to be and how this and that used to happen when he walked pass you. So you should avoid him and dont be friends with him because thats only gonna make your feelings stay. and you wouldnt be able to move on for a very very long time. You should keep your self company, try and go do things with your friends or family. Write a poem, or a story. Keep your self busy.
good luck!
2007-03-22 01:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good day...
appaently..something ..that was so special to your heart..but
..a b/f with the attitude been there ..done that..and so over it..
you have the right to remove..and put everything away.. as ..he truely does not share the deep feelings for you ..as you do for him..mmm
to move on ..is the right move.. find a man that does share your dreams ..feelings and life long future to be with..
to be friends ..depends on the enviroment to which you both connect ..or ..are now disconnected.. a distance apart might help till you get over the deep feelings ..your friend seemed not to show...after that special time..but will take some time for you to do so..!!. smile ..have a great day..
2007-03-22 01:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on OK. once you broke up you said to him and you you were done with him. However, you let him bring candy and flowers and trying to buy your love. That sends him mixed signals and that's not nice , Especially since your probably going to do him and then have post sex negative decision and break his heart all over again. Do both of you a favor and just close the book in this chapter of your lives.
2007-03-22 01:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he is sooo over it, back off. If anything, like if you work at the same place, youu can treat him like an aquaintance-say "hi" to him once in a great while, otherwise, just leave him alone. There are better guys out there. Take care.
2007-03-22 01:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop being friends with this guy until you can be in control of your emotions. You need to move on and find someone else to have real relationship with. I have had relationships which I thought were "the one" which in hind sight they definately were not! It sounds like you have a slight obsession and you need to find something else more healthy to obsess about.... good luck.
2007-03-22 01:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i feel your pain. if hes over it already. let him go... i know easier said than done. im getting over a 2 year relationship and its killing me. he acts like there was never anything there right? it hurts. its a lot easier to put everything away and limit communication with him. you'll get over it. hes not worth your time or pain. hes missing out. forget about him.
2007-03-22 01:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment any relationship is either...
1. more trouble than it's worth
2. causing unnecessary heartache
3. causing you to spend money in order to maintain it, or
4. only valued by you
...it's time to move on. If you continue in a relationship even after it's causing one or more of those reasons above, you only have yourself to blame for the trouble and heartache it causes. :)
2007-03-22 01:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be easyer for you if you stop even seeing him as friends or as enybody.He is over you,has no feelings for you.That only should be enough for you to get yourself off of him.
2007-03-22 01:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋