If you were a guy in your 20's (esp. if you're the shy guy type) and you're still a virgin, are you worried? do feel pressured? or does it make you wanna wait for that "one" more?
and guys, alot of girls in this time of age are saving themselves for marriage, how do you feel about that? Is it a turn on? or turn off?
2007-03-21 18:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if you are still a virgin and do fell the pressure, would you just find a random girl and "give it away" or save yourself for THE GIRL you've always admired?
2007-03-21 18:15:57 · update #1
This sort of thing is almost purely situational for us shy guys. (yes i am one too)
Do we feel worried or pressured? No, not really... just means we have not found anyone who's that kind of "special" to us. We may say we're waiting for marriage, which is true, but you never know what may happen if you end up finding someone dear and important to you. Things may happen, it's all unknown. It's not so much a set-in-stone rule, but rather a direction that the guy is headed in unless something drasticly affects him.
As for throwing it away and getting ti over with? Many guys do that, but not for any real purpose- those are just the kind of guys who will take a chance to just 'screw a chick' when the opportunity comes. The shy guys instead wait for the right person and time, which i beleive is much more meaningful, and deserves the term 'love making' (lol) over just 'screwing'.
2007-03-21 18:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Brad C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a SHY GUY AND a VIRGIN AND in my 20'S, I would like to say that I wont have sex until I get married and I would prefer being with a girl that is a virgin also. A girl that has had sex a lot is a turn off to me. Waiting for sex until marriage is no big deal, just as long as I get married. ;-)
2007-03-21 18:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a turn on that some women in their 20s are virgins also, because it tells me that those women have character and integrity. They are not willing to have sex with some random guy. They are waiting for and wanting much more out of a relationship - and that is very attractive.
2007-03-21 18:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I will be little worried, but if I were 30 and still have virginity I'll worried alot. I think most girls are liar saying they saving for marriage. Eventually they have to give in somewhat and have some fun.
2007-03-21 18:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To a few however no longer all man's it's major. The traditional man thinks, oh i could as good simply do away with it. the leisure wish to do it with the proper individual, within the proper location and on the proper time. although so much men will speak jack,, "oh i did this chick so often, she used to be begging for it" however no longer all, i can not say that i cared so much whilst i misplaced mine and im a woman, although i do want that i did. however i nonetheless would not difference it for some thing
2016-09-05 11:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by pizzaro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who save themselves is a serious turn off. I wouldnt even talk to a person like that cause they disbelief their own existence and put their own purpose off to one person at the end. how stupid is that? you should make your self as happy as possible weather it be with one or more people. If I was 20 I would be woried but maybe it doesnt matter? maybe many years ahead we will evolve from having sex but i hope not.
2007-03-21 18:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes me wait even more. i'll wait for the girl that has saved herself for me as well. virginity is important to me. it lets me know that they have morals and they will have sex with me when they love me.
2007-03-21 18:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by jpwarzone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm for waiting, but it's got to be up to you both!
2007-03-21 18:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋