do all men look at other women?

Question

even if they are married or in a relationship? what does that mean? are they unhappy? or just being a man?

i've heard thay all men look, but why? if he was really happy with the person he was with why would he look at other people? is it just biology or is he just unhappy? i notice it when guys do it, and it bothers me. but friends have told me that it's just a guy thing. are they right? or should i be concerned?

Answer 1

I think every man looks at other women, and women do the same thing, but we arent as obvious as when men do it, it is very obvious in the way they do it.

Answer 2

All guys look, but it depends on how they look.
If you see a nice car, you look. If you see a pretty girl, you look. If you see a pretty dress, you look. If you see a cute guy, you look. If he KEEPS looking or just gawks (lusting).. it's a problem. Looking over and being like "oh that person is attractive" in his mind is not wrong at all.. it's the other stuff that is.
If he makes sexual comments.. thats an ever bigger problem. If he is looking at other girls more than he is paying attention to you, THAT IS AN ISSUE.
All people notice attractive things, but he should always think like this: She's hot, but my girl is way better. You should be the only one in his eyes... if you're not, then he's not the one for you and you need to find the guy who is truely into you and loves you.

and this is very very true... stated by a prior poster


they are lusting. i did a lot of reading on this subject. it is wrong even if it is just being a man. in the bible it says you are not to lust after another woman because its like you have cheated or committed adultry. the only thing is you did it in your mind. you were thinking it. let me tell you, and i dont care what these other people say on here. it is disrespectful extremely to gawk and stare at other women. it causes many problems in relationships and it is a sign to cause a person not to trust there man. if a man is looking at another woman while his woman is standing there, then what is he doing when she is not around. i hate men who do this. dont get me wrong but its a difference in seeing and gawking. i dont know why there are people out there who think this behavior is ok. its not. believe me its not. read your bible and it will explain it all. just becuz its only human doesnt make it write. men need to have control and stop thinking with their peckers. its disgusting and a big turn off. it really makes them look stupid whether they know it or not. i wouldnt want a man who is staring at me while his woman is there. its shows disrespect to his woman and the woman he is lusting after.

Answer 3

they are lusting. i did a lot of reading on this subject. it is wrong even if it is just being a man. in the bible it says you are not to lust after another woman because its like you have cheated or committed adultry. the only thing is you did it in your mind. you were thinking it. let me tell you, and i dont care what these other people say on here. it is disrespectful extremely to gawk and stare at other women. it causes many problems in relationships and it is a sign to cause a person not to trust there man. if a man is looking at another woman while his woman is standing there, then what is he doing when she is not around. i hate men who do this. dont get me wrong but its a difference in seeing and gawking. i dont know why there are people out there who think this behavior is ok. its not. believe me its not. read your bible and it will explain it all. just becuz its only human doesnt make it write. men need to have control and stop thinking with their peckers. its disgusting and a big turn off. it really makes them look stupid whether they know it or not. i wouldnt want a man who is staring at me while his woman is there. its shows disrespect to his woman and the woman he is lusting after.

Answer 4

I once got this really great advice from an older woman. She said that it is natural to be captivated by beauty. We all are sometimes - women admire other women, and vice-versa. What a man does with that is up to him. It all comes down to his attitude toward women. It is nice to be able to appreciate women - but not all men feel that way about it - sometimes they are capable of taking it way past that... the thing is, how do YOU feel about it? And if you feel threatened by that, maybe it's about you and not about the man himself. You need to build your confidence within yourself and not judge men on what they do, because if you rely on always feeling safe with a man (because it can hurt when your man looks at someone else, and sometimes it can cause you to question your own capabilities as a female), then maybe all you need to do to sidetrack that is feel competent enough to not let it bother you, should it happen. It doesn't always, but if it does, will you be okay with that?

Good luck to you! I wish you the best!!!!

Sincerely,
Angel

Answer 5

NO. And I am sick to death of hearing "All men do it" when it comes to porn, checking out women, etc. Seems you can do any damn thing you want these days as long as you don't take it out and stick it in.

Demand some respect for yourself. If a man makes a commitment to you, he should only be looking at you. Everything else is just an excuse and a lame one at that.

Answer 6

Males are hard wired not just to look at other chicks but to mate with as many females as possible -and most interestingly non-cheating/non-seed spreading males are a big turnofff for many chicks

The reason is that chicks subconciously seek to mate with males increasing their (the female's) odds of winning the genetic lottery of survival

Non-cheating "nice guys" are in effect an evolutionary dead-ends for women and their DNA senses this and shuts down the "chemistry"

So while chicks might complain about their guy friends who look at other women- they would quickly be turned-off by those guys not looking

No sense in arguing with 5 million years of evolution - women cannot simply wish away all that baggage

Answer 7

I think its natural to look, but dis respectful to make comments or stare to the point that is obvious....When I was married I very seldom bothered to look at another women.

Answer 8

Just because you are in a relationship or married does not mean you can't look, there is nothing wrong with it if you don't disrespect your significant other.If you buy a pair of shoes today does that mean you are not going to look at another pair of shoes anymore? or a purse for that matter. a wise woman once said "you can look at the menu as long as you have dinner at Home" now this wise woman was very secured of herself.

Answer 9

i think it shows their view of women. if they think of them as sex objects, then they are going to have disrespect for their partner and in the same way fantasize about whatever new woman crosses their path. i wouldn't say it's "just being a man". real men respect and admire women.

Answer 10

Yes, and just being a man. We are wired that way. Its in the biology. Just the way it is.