ok this isn't a self pity question, just seeing if anyone else is like this or what your thoughts are. So I feel ready for a boyfriend and I'm always wanting one, but when I get the opportunity I run away from it (i know that sounds cliche), like as soon as I find out a guy likes me, I don't want to be around him at all, I get stomach aches too. what is up with that?? FYI: I know I'm not a lesbian.
2007-03-21 17:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if you did go through this, how did you get over it? did you just have to make yourself be with someone to get used to it?? I can't see myself changing even though I want to...
2007-03-21 17:41:11 · update #1
the stomach aches aren't nervous butterflies, and i get annoyed everytime i see the guy who likes me ....it can't be normal
2007-03-22 13:06:45 · update #2
I totally went through the same thing. I just didn't want to feel committed, and I also just liked the chase. But then I found a guy who was absolutely amazing and I got over fear of commitment because I just liked him that much.
2007-03-21 17:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda like that too. With me one of the problems is that I like to get to know a guy and know that I can at least carry on a conversation with him before I would even consider dating him. Most of the guys I meet tell me too early that they like me and it kinda freaks me out. I think they are afraid of being put in the friend zone so they wanna get it out there but I'm not ready to hear it yet.
Another problem may be that the right guy hasn't come along yet. Eventually you are going to meet a guy that you think is cute, sweet and everything you're looking for. And that guy wont give up as easily as most. He will wait to be rejected a few times before he takes it as your final answer (You know give you some time to warm up to the idea). When that guy comes you won't be able to run away. Your heart wont let you.
2007-03-22 00:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. When I find out a guy likes me I feel pressured, almost like I know he's going to ask me out cause he's not as shy as me. So I start to hate his guts and get stomach aches constantly. I think it's because I feel pressured because I don't wanna b mean to him and I don't do the social thing well.
2007-03-22 01:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're feeling is very normal. And you might be afraid of commitment... It will come to you once you give yourself the opportunity to meet the right man. :o) n
2007-03-22 00:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, just scared and shy. Both of those things need to be overcome, but it will happen with time. Fact is everyone is like that with someone new, just keep trying and it will work out.
2007-03-22 00:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal you just get nervous. I was like that when i went on my first date. Girls always get that feeling when they like somebody.
2007-03-22 00:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're shy and new to dating obviously.
Make the leap and see what happens.
You may be pleasantly surprised.
;-)
2007-03-22 11:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by guylookin4fun06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means you just lik to admire them and day dream but u r not really ready for it1! give it time...
2007-03-22 00:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by pinkcloud2015 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am sorry that you was shy but if you like guys
i say go for it don't be shy i hope this helps
2007-03-22 00:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by emmydiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋