I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. The only thing that seems to come up now and then and cause trouble for us is his past.
When we first started getting to know each other he told me things about his sexual relationship with his ex. I was a virgin when I met him, and he only had that one partner before me. At first this was fine with me, but more and more he would reveal details about her, and things he did with her, and it just makes me sick thinking about him with her. He had no idea until I brought it up and told him how I felt, and he felt just horrible.
But now I can't seem to get over some things he did with her, and also the fact that he didn't wait to have sex with someone he loved--me. I can't help but think this...any advice, or similar experiences? Thank you.
2007-03-21 17:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well then you might have to break up with him. Face it he probably was in love with his ex. Face the fact that he had a life before you..if you can't forgive and forget then get outta the relationaship...it will only get you in to trouble later on in the relationship.
Forgive and forget or move on.
2007-03-21 17:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do no the only reason he told you is he wants you to let him do the same thing he did with her.I can't believe he told you because that is something you never,never tell unless like i said he is trying to see how you feel about doing them things with him. Now that he knows how you feel he is kicking his self in the a s s because he has told you,he knows now he will be paying for that mistake for as long as you two are together.
2007-03-21 17:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u two so bored with each other that you have to hear all that history? Tell dude you aren't trying to hear all the gory details and shut him down before he starts it's straight disrespectful and nobody in their right mind would want to hear about that. Why is he even thinking of all that anyways?
2007-03-21 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it happened to me to.. but there's one thing you must not forget.. you have the opportunity to be with him now and he belongs to you.. i hope you know what i mean by he belongs to you.. just take life easy and enjoy the moments you have with the person you love.. leave the past behind
2007-03-21 17:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it kinda irritated and annoying coz u dont understand what the reason of that past stories. it could make ur relationship worse, actually. u cannot always understand and accepting his past, so tell him to stop it and forget about the past. make something better for both of u. sighz!
2007-03-21 17:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past,look to the future,you cant change the past.
2007-03-21 17:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tazz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋