Me and my ex?

Question

I have a question. I know this may sound stupid but I am confused. what does it mean when your ex tells you there is no one he'd rather marry. When I asked him is there a possibility that we will be husband and wife someday, he said " I sincerely hope so." He broke it off because we live kinda far from each other and we have a lot of differences. He tells me no one compares to me. and that "Theres not a replacement for you, not anywhere."Another thing he said was "even if it takes 5 or 10 years I don't care." "If fate brings us back together, I'm not going to shy away from it." he also got pretty jealous when I told him I went and hung out with dude and we got a bit drunk. I guess, I was wanting to make him jealous to see if he cared. He said it starts you off on a bad train of thoughts. Well someone help me. I kinda wrote more than I intended to, but the main question is the part about marriage, when he said, there isn't anyone he would rather marry.

I know most people are gonna think, "why is she asking about her ex?" well we have known each other for a total of 8 years. I am 24 now and we dated way back when we were teenagers. anyways, This time around i was very serious, we even talked about marriag. this is a guy who would get scared by the word, "marriage". I guess I was an exception. I beleive everything he says, cuz I KNOW he would never lie to me. It is just hard because I know he still loves me, but he doesn't think we can work out right now. We have too many problems.. I live in ft worth, tx, and he lives in san antonio, tx. We both are stubborn about moving to each others city. There are other things that really really hurt us. I mean we both know our lvoe is there and he told me no one will ever make him feel the way I did. I believe him and we both know there will always be that spark. I am tryin to let go, but it is hard when you believe that person is your soulmate.

ok, I am getting a lot of responses telling me that I should try to make it work. I have told him how much I miss him and he tells me the same. I know he means it, but the relationhip took a tole on him. right now in his life he doesn't think it can work. Maybe if he knew positively that everything would work out, he might. but this is our second try at the relationship. He is the type of person that doesn't deal well with conflict. He wanted us to be perfect. I think he still does, but he knows we aren't. I just want to let go and move on with my life, but it is so freaking hard. I have never loved someone lik ethis

oh and for the person who commented about him not loving me, that is bull. I know he does. I didn't ask if he loved me, anyways. I just needed to vent. We both came to the realization that love isn't enough to make a relationship work. We have always had bad timing. Seriously. Our differences are pretty drastic. I don't want to get into everything because then people will make fun of me and him. It did have sometihng to do with religion, marijuana, and him staying in san antonio cuz he has to take care of his family cuz his dad is lazy. so yeah. Gosh. I am writing a lot. sorry everyone. lol

Answer 1

It means he still loves you and he hopes your the one that he's suppose to spend the rest of your life with.

Answer 2

Whats your question? If he said that then I'm guessing he means it. But if he really loved you and wanted to get married then he wouldn't have broken up with you. When you break up that means you agree to date other people. And if he loved you then he wouldnt want to date other people and would be satisfed with just talking to you on the phone. Bring this up with him and see what he says. Good luck.

Answer 3

Do you want to marry him? Would you be willing to relocate and be closer to him? Make absolute sure that marriage is what you want, because it is harder than you think it will be. If this is what you want, then don't wait for fate. Make it happen, but be sure of it before you jump into marriage.

Answer 4

It means just what he said it means.