Should I ?

Question

Hi I'm in need of other peoples opinions in my current situation. I'm 25, have a "good" job(with no benefits), a beutiful 3yr old daughter, another baby on the way in 3 months, and a house. So I am in a better situation then some people. ok...question...I am thinking of joining the ARMY for more reasons than 1, for my family(benefits), for myself(because i've basically done absolutly nothing with my life), and also if sucessful completion of service(dont die) my little ones can have a father to look up to not just a dead beat dad thats content with nothing. I have spoke with recruiters and the ARMY is the only one who will accept me(due to the fact that the only thing i did do in my life was get in trouble)but that part of me i have chose to defeat. I do understand that I'll probaly have to leave my family for a while and miss a little of these importat times in their lives but im doing this for them. In that away time I want to take advantage of it and get a degree under my belt. HELP

Answer 1

Do what you feel is best talk over it with your wife and see what she thinks or you could join the ARMY reserves My uncle is in the army reserves and hes not always gone just called out when needed

Answer 2

hi. yourself. you know that with any choice that you make it
for the good of your family, i would talk to your family about
this, and see how they think about this, you have children also
that something to deal with as will bu if you want to do right
for your children then do what is best for you. good luck to
you.