k my gf is mad a t me alittle and she told me to prove to her that i love her, and i really do and im trying as hard as i can, but she wont accept it
any idea, and no stupid comments about dumping her,, i love this girl i will not do that
2007-03-21 17:06:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever see the movie "8 days a week?"
Spending your whole summer sitting outside her window should do it. It worked in the movie.
The way you show a girl that you love her can not be limited to action. You must make her FEEL loved. Cherish her. Adore her. Tell the world about her. Show her off. Let her feel like the most special girl in the world. Be there for her.
You must also understand what real love is. And that is actually... choosing her over you. An easy answer then could be: do something that you hate but that she loves. Maybe she likes horses but you can't stand their smell. Choke it up and take her horsback riding. Make it something that she knows that you hate. Hate dancing? If she knows it, then take her to a dance class.
Let her know that you put her first.
Either that or just camp out in her front yard for the summer.
2007-03-21 17:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all. How bad did you mess up and why is she mad at you. Thats needed to figure out the level of sucking up you need to do. Simply tell her you love her maybe with some flowers. I know you say you love this girl but she sounds like high drama if you have to PROVE to her you love her. Just treat her like she's your girl and if she asks for more and you keep it up sooner or later you wont have anything else to give. One more thing. If you're suppose to be proving to her that you love her then the ideas need to come from your own head if she found out that your online asking for ideas then whatever you do will no be special.
2007-03-21 17:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley Oasis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proving love comes over time, quitting something you do that you enjoy for her is a step, sacrificing. without knowing why she is mad hurts giving you a good answer . When girls say prove it they are wanting to and needed to know you love them. Cuddling holding hands telling her how much she means to you take an add out in the paper telling her go on the local radio station , tell everyone about her but the main thing is listen to her what ever she is saying know how to listen to her is also loving her and proving that you love her
2007-03-21 17:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by ot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't accept it. Move on. Seriously. It is not a stupid comment, it's from experience.
Otherwise she is making you into her puppet, until you do exactly as she says, anytime she wants anything.
"Oh I am mad, do this! No it's not enough! More!"
It never stops, using you since you make it well known that you "love her."
What got her mad in the first place? Anyone who is a little mad does not say "prove your love to me." Screw that.
Move on and find someone less manipulative.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 17:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her some chocolate or butterscotch pudding (not the instant kind, but the "cook" kind. Serve it to her ln a little dessert cup after it has cooled a bit. Add some whip cream but don't give her any utensils to eat it with...no spoon, no fork and no knife. Then, tell her, "you asked me to proove to you that I love you. Well, love is in the every day things that you and I do, so since you are blind, I am reduced to this...and that is...THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING!" Then let HER figure out her next move!
2007-03-21 17:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't given you a clue on what you need to do to prove it, ask her. What is she not willing to accept, and how have you shown her. Add a little more details to your question and you get even better answers!!!!
2007-03-21 17:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by kk79605 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would show her by taking time for her doing some thing out of the way for her by taking her to lunch, buying her flower just to say you love her or your are thinking of her. a woman likes to feel the love by what you show her not only tell her but you need to probably complement her more often. a woman can feel when a man love her its a woman intuition. do things that interest both of you, if you love like you say you do will it should not be hard for you to express it to her. a woman love a man to sing to her love song especially when he cant sing it lights up my day so try it
2007-03-21 17:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by claudia w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wright her a song or a poem. Tell her something that you have never told anybody. If she gets sick recently, make sure to be there for her and give her what she needs and what she wants if you can. Give her the I'm sorry flowers.....Red Roses.
2007-03-21 17:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by ibleedorange 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stand under her window at night with a boombox over your head playing a good love song
2007-03-21 17:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy Dean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but if she demands proof, then she does not truly love you. Love means never having to say you are sorry. Sorry, and good luck.
2007-03-21 17:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋