ok I have a boyfriend and hes my ex. he is 3 years older than me. he broke my heart once why wouldnt he do it again? My sister and her boyfriend say that I should break up with him. But I dont think I should. I dont want to either. My sisters boyfriend is his bestfriend! what should I DO???? PLEASE HELP AND PLEASE DONT SAY SOMETHING DUMB I REALLY NEED HELP!
2007-03-21 17:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by ~*J@CK!3*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact you are asking this question shows your are SERIOUSLY not happy.
Why did you two dreak up before? How did he hurt you?
If other people say you two should not be together, they have a motive on why. You need to sit there and see if he really makes you happy, does he make you laugh, do you fight more than you love up on each other? Do you talk about the future, do you see your future with him?
If you answered no to any of those questions you really need to think about it. I went thru ALOT of guys, and they had no base hits ,if you know what I mean, and only one held on and we got to know each other, and love each other.
If you leav him, which it sounds like you should. Take you time, live life single, hang out with the girls, put all your time in work or school. Work on yourself than a guy! I know its hard, but trust me it will be BETTER!
If you do leave, and find a new guy....become friends, then best friends, then gf/bf, then after many months after talking, living, loving you can hit the base...take your time!! Good luck!
2007-03-21 17:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. What do you think? You certainly fear being alone more than gaining a relationship where you know you are loved equally. It is commendable to give s second chance. I guess the only thing you can do is have plenty of tissue standing by and a magic marker to write "doormat" on your back, and "sucker" across your forehead. People are told all the time don't try to jump over this and that on a bike you will get hurt. And all the time there is some one who thinks THEY can do it, and go try. Because they really want to. So, you really want to just be prepared for it not to work. Exes are exes for a reason. If it was not good the last time, what has changed to make you think it has improved?
2007-03-22 00:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more complicated than you have written, but I'll try to help. You have to think about what he did to you that broke your heart and if you think that he would do it again. If you think he would, why would you want to put yourself in that position again? Do you just want to be with him because you see him a lot because he is your sister's boyfriend's best friend? Why do your sister and her boyfriend think you should break up? Do what your heart tells you to do. But take into consideration all the stuff that other people are telling you. They might have a point.
2007-03-22 00:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by really marine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on how old you are. If you are a teenager less than 17, then it doesn't make too much difference. You're bound to experience some heartache. It happens! Just be true to yourself by not lying or making up truths where only myths exist. Most people who will love you will let you know they love with very concrete things. It is hard to mistake true love. But, it is easy to fall into the trap of obsession and longing! Don't do it!
2007-03-22 00:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his bestfriend thinks you should break up with him then listen to that, he;s probaly one of the ppl who know him best/
2007-03-22 00:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to give him another chance, then do so. But if he breaks your heart again, don't be surprised. Like they say Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
2007-03-22 00:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by MJ2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got your answer.
If your sister's boyfriend is his best friend, he knows. Listen.
Don't get back with him.
2007-03-22 00:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋