2007-03-21 16:59:18 · 40 answers · asked by Tonia G 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are differently NOT a bad person. Things happen and sometimes they happen for a reason. My last two kids are close in age. But I guess it all matter on how old you are. You will be fine
2007-03-21 17:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? Of course not my baby is 14 months and we are starting to try for number 2. By the time baby 2 comes along the 14 month old will be almost 2 not a bad gap if you ask me.
2007-03-21 17:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kellie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you a bad person. Some people have babies 9 months apart and their not bad either. Your little one will almost be two when the new baby arrives. Thats the age of a little more independence. Bringing a new life into the world could never be bad. Everything happens for a reason.
2007-03-21 17:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not make you a bad person. It depends on what the rest of your life is like are you running around wild and free? Are you married? If you answered yes and then no you may want to slow down, but you are not a bad person. There are people who have had one child in January and then another child in December of the same year. They just like you are not bad people just need to take some things in life a little slower or somebody needs to stop enjoying the moment and go to the store and get some baby stopping accessories.
2007-03-21 17:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all some people have a child and turn around a get pregnant before their 6 week check up and this doesn't make them bad people it just makes them parents. If you are a good mother to your children who cares their age differences.
2007-03-21 17:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why that would make you a bad person. My neighbour has two girls only ten months apart and I just think she's lucky and must have a lot of energy to keep up with them!
The only thing I can think of that would make you feel guilty about it is if they are from different fathers and if thats the case, it still doesnt make you a bad person. You make your own choices, if people dont like them don't worry about it, dont let anyone make you feel bad, their judgement doesnt matter only yours does. And if you dont like it, well all you can do is try not to make the same mistake again, no one is perfect.
2007-03-21 17:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by zimba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm far from being God, but thus far you haven't broken any of the 10 commandments based on the information you've provided. If our Lord and savior Jesus Christ doesn't have anything to say about your age and/or actions in a specific time frame, then no other opinion matters! May God bless you and your children, please do what I know you will do which is being the best mom you can be and raise your children to know and love the Lord. God bless you and don't let anyone discourage you in your plight to be a great mother.
2007-03-21 17:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by Micah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you are a bad person? I think you are just going to be a very busy person. It will be difficult when you first have the baby , but when the kids get around 3 they will play together and all will be fine. Don't worry so much.
2007-03-21 17:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by phylobri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? Same father? Can you provide for this/these babies? Will they have a stable, loving, two parent home???
I have no way of knowing if you are bad. Being pregnant alone doesn't make you good, bad, or anything else. Seems like doing right by your baby is more important than worrying about yourself. Plenty of childless couples want a baby to love. If you can't do it, let them.
2007-03-21 17:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by itsmeinin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't a bad person..Whose telling you that you are?? My middle daughter was 10 months old when I got pregnant with her younger sister. My mother thought I'd lost my mind. I was thrilled. Mom to 3.
2007-03-21 17:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? I had a son in august and anoyther son the following November. He was 15 months old when his lil brother was born. They are fine nad so am I . Take care of your self and have your current child on the track you need before teh new baby. potty traine dor off the bottle or sleeps aone all night ect.... because it gets harder when you have more dependants. They really are dependant. I also have a 3 year old. Its okay and fun for the kids to be close. congrats
2007-03-21 17:05:01 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋