my boyfriend and i had a fight over something we both admitted was stupid to fight over......but now i feel horribale about everything. i said i was sorry and he did too but there was still tention in the air. he's 1500 miles away so we only get to talk once a night and this is the first fight we've had since he left...things have been going good untill this....do i feel so bad cause we can't talk again until tomorrow night or do you think that maybe i feel guilty?? im not sure but i don't know what to do.....
2007-03-21 16:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by Rhylie and Paiyden 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax buttercup take a nice long bath glass of wine happy music everthing all good live and learn
2007-03-21 17:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm in Texas and my g/f is in Missouri. We first saw eachother in person in Thanksgivin, i just knew that she was the right one (finally lol).
Part of the reason you feel so bad is because you love him so much, and the other part is because y'all are so far apart. Distance can really increase one's feelings. Especially if you are as much in love with one another as you two are.
I talk to my g/f online every day, and on the phone every night but damn....it's so hard cuz i can only see her face on cam. Lately, there hasn't been a night that I haven't shed a tear cuz she's not here with me at night. Yeah, i like a lot of sex..but one thing i want more, is to just be able to hold her in my arms every night and know that she's safe, and not have to worry about her.
I hope this helps. :-)
2007-03-22 00:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cory C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your just stressed because he's not able to be with you. Being away from someone you love and not being able to see or talk to them as much as you used to can be very depressing and difficult to get through. It can also be a bit scary. I think what you should do is realize that you miss him, you should take it from there. be strong and enjoy the contact that you do have with him.
2007-03-22 00:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are sad because he is so far away and you cant hug him to make yourself feel better. Long distance relationships are hard, but i hope you both work it out.
2007-03-22 00:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you can't see him and embrass him and because of that you don't know his body language. If you can't feel his body language it's going to make you feel uncomfortable. It will probably take several nights but you will feel better soon.
2007-03-22 00:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great you both apologized, all relationships require work, and moreso for long distance, keep workin' and things will be fine.
2007-03-22 00:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably because its your frist fight since he left
give it time im sure my tomorrow things will be back to normal
specially since you both admitted you were wrong
2007-03-22 00:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by TNK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋