Need a girls honest opinion please!...does she like me?, or am i getting played?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

now the other day i asked her to the movies, and she goes"will you be paying?"...well we never ended up going that night since she got really tired, so i took her back home and left.I asked her this week if she would wnna go movies my shout , and she said she wont be going out for at least 2.5 weeks since shes so wasted from study....what should i make of this?.....i feel she is just playing me along now?....what do you guys think?one really odd thing is she talks to me when she needs help, but other than that i have to talk to her first for her to start talking to me.....via txt/msn etc...is she playing hard to get?, or is she just playing me around....im thinking of not saying anything to her and see how she reacts?

Answer 1

This girl senses that you like her heaps and is taking advantage of the situation. She flirts with you and cuddles up to you. Well you know what she does. She is so self absorbed that it's impossible to know if she is capable of liking anyone but herself. You need to move on. Try not to get so involved at such a young age with one girl. Once you do move on, if this girl really does like you, she will quit acting like such a ninny and not let you slip away. But really, try not to get too serious with anyone yet. These are just girls and you are still a boy. You will want to be available for the women who will surely be waiting for you once you become a man.

Answer 2

Dude, relax and be a man.

Your worrying comes off like a little girl. She likes you, she's tired from studying.

Exercise more you got way too much energy that you are using up on worrying about if a girl likes you.

Ask her out on a date after the 2 weeks.

If she says no, ask someone else. It's a numbers game.

RELAX < Study and learn this.

Answer 3

Well sweetie, Just remember that honesty is the best remedy! I mean really if you tell her how you feel, what could be the worst she can say! i don't like you??? At least you will know the truth! and you can either hook up or move on! You just need to tell her the way you feel! if you are afraid to loose her tell her that! you can only go up from here! And remember even if she doesn't like you and is playing you then it is better to know now, and not later when you say " damn she played me" Just tell her!!!!!

Answer 4

It sort of sounds to me like she doesn't really know what she wants. It sounds like she might be depressed and looking for a friend, someone who she can trust and depend on. Look for signs of struggle in her life you may be the one person who can help her. If that's not it she may just be testing the waters waiting to see if she does like you, if she does she'll let you know. If you don't see any signs that she's having personal problems and she doesn't give you any signs you then have 2 options.

1. Move on
2. Make your move and see if she's receptive

Good luck!

Answer 5

well baby only thing i can say is that she is in love with you,and don't know how to express herself to you,cause she is afraid that she will lose you. now by her studying well that's normal for a girl, and the reason she opens up to you is because you are her partner and her mate and she fill that she can open up to you.and if she was playing you sweetie you will know cause she will fill distant from you and she will think you are crowding her and she will need her space. now by her saying that she need 2.5 weeks to herself you are crowding her. so let her have her space she will come around cause you are her friend and she can count on you.also sweetie you won't lose her cause what girl put her boyfriend picture in their phone without her girlfriends hassling her about it. that means she care for you or love you so give her time okay she will come around to you okay.

Answer 6

I wouldn't make too much of any of this. I think she likes you on some level, but maybe not ready/willing to make something of it. At age 17 she's probably got a lot on her mind and things can be confusing, exciting, stressful, who knows. Just be a friend and don't read too much into it at this point.

Answer 7

I dunno dude. It sounded like she really likes you alot but i dont like the fact that she said she cant go out for 2.5 weeks b/c studying. thats bs. maybe a few nights but not 2.5 weeks. If i were you i would just straight up tell her that you like her alot and would like to take her to dinner. dont go to the movies since you cant talk there. best of luck dude, she might very well like since girls act very strange sometimes even if they like the guy. i swear they are harder to understand than rocket science.

Answer 8

She sounds like a nerd. If you like that go for it. The first half of your question sounded like she likes you alot. Then she sounds like shes using you... she could have just asked about if you were paying to see if it was a date or not. You never know till you talk to her about it.

Answer 9

I'm a guy my view she just wants to be freinds with you. By the way your talking she see's you more as a brother figure type person in her life. But I could be wrong so keep going for her.

Answer 10

Well, it def. sounds like she likes you, you don't curl up next to someone you don't like. I'm not sure if she's playing you though or what. All I can say is tell her straight out that you like her and you are confused as to if she likes you. Tell her that you don't appreciate her toying with your feelings. If she likes you then she'll straighten upa dn quit playing with you.