Today I asked the girl I like out, and she said "lets be friends"
I really like her, what is a special thing I could do for her. (example dedicate a song for her and give it to her) Please help me!! I realy want her to like me. Need more details, mail me. Please urgent!!!
2007-03-21 16:53:24 · 20 answers · asked by Victor Martinez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What can i talk about with her, she is really the person i like
2007-03-21 17:03:49 · update #1
keep the answers coming, the really help and those who allready answered, add more details
2007-03-21 17:06:25 · update #2
If she wants to just be friends, you should respect that. You can't force people to like you.
2007-03-21 16:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What to do really depends on exactly what you said to her the first time. If you said, "Hi, ______ would you like to go out Friday night." Then you need to express yourself a little more. TALK to her. Communication is the key. Let her know how you feel about her.
And then if she insists on being friends -- Dude -- you have to let it go. And don't worry. This girl will not make you or break you. You can't tell me there's not another one around you can ask out on a date! It's as I say: "You fail 100% of the time at opportunities that you never take."
2007-03-22 00:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by brevboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted more than friendship she would've explicitely told you. When girls say "lets be friends", it usually means that they don't want you as a boyfriend so stop thinking that way. Ask yourself, "Can she really become my friend?" If you don't think she'd make a good friend than forget about her. If it sounds like she's just making an excuse and doesn't sincerely want a friendship then move on and find another girl who likes you more. This one obviously doesn't like you enough. The love girls feel for us is uncontrollable for them. It's never forced upon them by us. Is she falling for YOU uncontrollably? Move on bro. Lots of em out there. Good luck.
2007-03-29 23:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by bradpittstuntdouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do just little things every day just to show her how much you like her and how dedicated you are to her like write little notes or send her flowers or a small teddy bear or find out her favorite thing and give her that one day it will show her how much effort you will put in a relationship when the girl is really commited
2007-03-29 14:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel do as she says - be friends and then maybe when shes got to know you a bit more she'll like you. If i was you i wouldnt write her a song cos if she still says no that will be realli embaressin!
2007-03-29 17:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jadey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop putting yourself lower than her, it's not like in the movies kid. we think it's hotter when you act like you don't like us. act cool, act like you have confidence, act like she should be chasing you. the more you crawl after her making romantic gestures, the more she's gunna see you as that guy who she told she only sees as a friend and yet, is now stalking her and sending her roses and dedicating songs to her on the radio.
2007-03-29 00:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing at this point is probably nothing
if you start writting songs for her and everything she'll think you're desperate and that may push her away more
if you think that would help maybe you're right though
you know her i don't
good luck
2007-03-21 23:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this from a girl, try once more, than dont do anything more, no luvy dovey crap like that, if she just wants to be friends, thats all ur gonna be, trust me. ive been asked out by this guy like twenty times, he follows me everywhere and calls me, ive grown to hate him, AND HE STILL ASKS ME OUT, just move on, and stay friends before it gets awkward
2007-03-21 23:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i TOTALLY agree with steviemo....if you ignore a girl, 90% of the time.....she will want what she cant have!!! i promise! i always end up wanting a guy after i tell him no, and then he acts like he doesnt care, so i want him again, not in a desperate way, its just something most woman do!!
2007-03-21 23:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by ThatGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my experience, i found that you cannot force a girl to like you. What you need to do is make sure that when your around her, to stand out. Eventually she may recognize you as someone she could see herself with.
2007-03-21 23:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋