there are lots of examples.. but i'll use the latest ones(first part is when she was sad and second part is what we do jokingly with each other). first, her parents are really strict and they don't really like her to go out with guys. therefore, sometimes she has to hide things from her parents when she goes out with me. a few days ago, she was going out with me, but she was so sad because her parents are not open and blames her a lot when she don't tell them about her hanging out with me.. she was sad and cried and told me that she wants to spend more time with me... but her parents seem to be so strict that everytime we hang out.. her parents would find out and blame her...
also, when she's not sad, we tend to joke with others a lot. we havent kissed yet but i put arms around her, hug her, and chat a lot and stuff.. sometimes, she will tell me jokingly not to touch her(thats when we are joking with each other,i donno if she means it or just joking?)..
so what do you think?
2007-03-21 16:12:13 · 8 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more than that. asked her. i been in that situation before, but wit a guy. i asked and it seem prefectly fine wit me and him. my parents aren't strict. she is probably having a hard time since her parents is so strict that she can't hang out wit u and blaming her for that or something.
2007-03-21 16:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is pretty hard to have a relationship with someone without the parents approval. Especially if you two are very young.
Second, I am sure your friend likes you, but sometime a girl is to shy to say not to do something serious, so she sounds like a joke. Just have respect for her and don't pressure her to do anything she is not comfortable with. Young ladies are shy, especially if never been kissed or touched. Give her the space she needs. Just remember that just because she does not kiss you or touch you, does not mean she doesn't like you. If you really care about this girl for a true girlfriend boyfriend relationship and not just for her body or experementing or anything physical...you will have total respect for her and not pass bounderies. In time she can trust you and you two will get closer. Just remember..love is not sex, or kissing, or touching. Don't mix up all that with love. That is just apart of love when two people are completly ready for it. Perferably with marriage, but I know now a days it is not like that. Just remember to be understanding about her parents, and that it is not her fault. Also remember, if you really like this girl that respect is the key to her heart. Give her time to trust you. Girls can be shy and be afraid to tell you how they feel. Remember that.
2007-03-21 23:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that she is just trying to see how it is defying her parents. I don't think she like you more than just a friend. If she did I think that she would make it clear. She's just really confortable around you and enjoys your company. So if you really want to know ask her how does she feel about you. Being straight forward may help answer the question you so eagerly want to know. You may find out that because you are such a good listener, you are her only way of her voice being heard since her parents aren't really open to talk to.
2007-03-21 23:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by darula007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're both very young and she is very innocent and you too seem to be kind and understanding. I think she likes you but is conflicted as she wishes to respect her parents wishes. It would be wise of you to wait until she is allowed to date to begin a serious relationship. Also when a lady asks a gentleman not to touch her he stops touching her. Kidding or no that's a serious matter. Don't ever touch unless it is MUTUALLY comfortable.
2007-03-21 23:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually, yes she does i mean if she is so sad that she can't be with you for longer periods because her parents are so old fashion and can't trust their daughter to go out with friends or go out on a date, it builds up pressure and she might even be scared to tell you she likes you because she thinks you are going to refuse to deal with her drama because thats basically what it is drama with her parents.
apperently with what you have said she likes you and you do too let her know and i am pretty sure you will be able to work it out her parents have to fall for it thats there little girls dream to be truste and they will end up having to trust her.....
2007-03-21 23:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you but since her parents are so strict she doesnt want to go against them and is having a hard time dealing with it......
2007-03-21 23:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she's not your girlfriend??
make her that.
ask her out.
she says yes then she likes you,
no than she doesnt... not like that anyway....
i for one thinks she DOES like you alot.
like that...
doesnt make it for sure... but i think you get the picture
good luck, hope it all works out....
- AJâ¥
2007-03-21 23:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by AJ_Let'sGetFucktUp&Die. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell. if she likes you you'll no.get over it.
2007-03-21 23:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋