i meet this guy 2 years ago, i liked him right away. I didn't let him know it though, it turned out he liked me ,too. So we started talking but then we got in this big fight, and ever since then we haven't been as close. He's the first guy i ever told i loved, and he's the only one i ever really have. I want to get him back-really bad. I've kinda messed up big time- i hooked up with one of his best friends, and i hardly knew him. Unfornatly he's not into wild girls - - -(so now i'm straightening up), but that might not be enough, any advise?!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 16:08:49 · 10 answers · asked by Ashly D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah kinda did the same with this wonderful guy ....but hint if he feels the same way about you....he will come around i promise...I'm engaged to the guy i totally screwed over...obviously he forgave me. Talking to him about it helps to and if you haven't apologized...well i would suggest it...him realizing that you are human and you messed up and feel terrible for it....if he truly likes you or cares about you he will want you back or at least want to start over and re-build the relationship
2007-03-21 16:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by amanda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing up and try to rebuild that relationship. Make the first move by talking to guy, but don't look so gaga over him. It will be hard and at first, very cold but if you guys do that more often, chances are, you'll revive that relationship. Remember: Forgiveness is given to those who sincerely ask for it.
2007-03-21 16:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by levitate15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ruined any chance of anything when you hooked up with his best friend. You can't do that to a guy and then expect him to forgive you. that's like the ultimate betrayel in their eyes. You're just going to have to give him time and wait to see what he does. But you really have no right to try to force anything on him or anything like that. You'd be pretty lucky if he forgives you and if he does it's going to take a long time.
2007-03-21 16:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just remind him how sorry u r, and about how much fun u had together. i'm a wild girl too, so i no how much fun it is! if ur willing to give up everything 4 this guy he'll eventually notice and go 4 u... all i can say is keep trying and don't gve up!
2007-03-21 16:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hang around him and be close again. try to show him by the way you act that u wont be immature.write him a note telling him that u messed up and you want him back.dont get all over him all at once. let it slowly come, go step by step but show him that you like him.
good luck!!!
2007-03-21 16:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you lose, don't lose the lesson learned!! At least you are mature enough to own up to your indescretions. You now know you can't play games with someone's heart... Sadly, it hurts alot... You have nothing to lose and everything to gain if you talk to him and tell him face to face.
2007-03-21 16:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooking up with a best friend is grounds for never talking to you again. don't change for him because it probably won't be worth it. i say move on.
2007-03-21 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ bp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it, move on.
Any girl that was banging my best friend to get back at me, is not on my list of girls I am going to commit to.
2007-03-21 16:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is that you do need to be more conservative....if he likes that...hang out with him...don't flirt with other boys...just focus on him and keep a clean reputation...it'll work out if its meant to be!
2007-03-21 16:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, get things worked out. as my personal opinion though, i think you should move on
2007-03-21 16:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋