2007-03-21 16:08:39 · 10 answers · asked by jeffbox100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
il tell you what at least most girls like-
a charming guy with a bad boy edge,is just the most lethal combination ever. add a dash of passion towards your woman and compassion towards others. 'looks' will take a back seat if the guy is confident and speaks well.
to top it all - make sure you smell bloody good.!!
-------------------------------- now you gotta talk or it wont work. just put on a warm smile and be genuinely nice..(not extra nice-that's a put off)...
2007-03-21 16:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, too but I've been around a while and can tell you a few things that work.
1) Ask questions. Any question can start a conversation. Ask for some sort of help like "Do you know... (fill in the blank)
2) Ask and then talk about them. People can always talk about themselves. She'll probably appreciate the interest.
By the way, if she doesn't ever ask anything about you, she's either not interested or totally self-involved.
3. Remember that girls are more like guys than they are different. Just try to have a neutral kind of conversation like you might have with a guy first. Whatever will get you talking.
4. Remember to listen.
5. The more you practice, the easier it gets
2007-03-21 23:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mark G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if it's a girl you don't know or don't know well, use body language first. You can gauge their interest without saying anything this way. Start with eye contact. Look at her till she looks at you and hold eye contact for a couple seconds (but don't stare) Do this a couple times, so she will probably get the idea you're interested. If she avoids eye contact after that, she's probably not interested, so move on. If she holds eye contact or keeps looking back at you, she is probably interested. I recommend this because it works well for shy people. You can get a read of how she feels before saying anything to her, just trying to save you from straight up rejection if she's not interested. After eye contact, try a smile. If she smiles back, that is an excellent sign. Smile means "it's ok to come talk to me." Go up to her, introduce yourself, say hi. No stupid lines. Ask her about herself and listen to what she has to say, don't talk about yourself a lot. It's ok to be nervous, she's probably nervous too. As the conversation ends, ask for contact information or just ask her on a date. If you didn't completely screw up the conversation part, her answer should be yes. Good luck!
2007-03-21 23:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy about what??? Your whole life is going to be filled with you having to take chances---remeber that dates and asking girls out is a two answer deal--YES OR NO--so it is a 50/50 chance that she will say yes or no--self confidence is what you need---so get it together, look nice, brush your teeth, find a proper time--then ask nicely for a date--if it is no--just calmly say thank you and try someone else. Make sure you are clean, polite, respectful and then be ready if she says yes--have an idea of what a date would like to do or where she would like to go...have enough money for a nice dinner and just have fun--be a good listener, be humorous, and smile. Good luck, pal
2007-03-21 23:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person, speak out when you have something to say and others will recognize that you know what your talking about and they will approach you...So bottom line, learn as much as you can about issues that attract you to a certain or certain girls...so you can become welcomed in their circles and that will make you more comfortable in talking with them...good luck.
2007-03-21 23:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some for friends. Treat them kindly and be nice like to your best guy friends. They are human, you know. Once you risk doing this, it will be easy.
2007-03-21 23:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont come off creepy lol.
but women usually like any guy talking to them, unless you're seriously buttugly and creepy haha
2007-03-21 23:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by missmonk013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like yourself and if she is the right one, she will like you back!! But don't get discouraged if she doesn't like you for the first time.
2007-03-21 23:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will just be your self and talk to girls nice and kindly.
2007-03-21 23:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by imanwright_3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno.. just walk up to her and say can i get your number?
2007-03-21 23:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋