today my ex, who i was going to say yes to be my friends with benefits, asked this girl out. who i happen to know. she isnt really my friend, but i know her and she knows me. and he still liked me from what i remember. he never told me that he was ready to move on. im so angry i started crying.. i guess i was jealous that he was moving on. but i was very mad. what can i do to make myself happier and try to move on? what could i do to make him understand how angry i am? i dont want to tell him im upset. but i want him to understand that i was. what can you infer, and tell me and give me some advice please on this situation
2007-03-21 16:06:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do i have a reason to be angry??? alot of my friends say i dont.
2007-03-21 16:12:17 · update #1
"Friends with benefits" is a mistake, period.
2007-03-21 16:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i did to move after something like this i first thing first CRY cry your heart out let go of all the pain 1 when he call look at the called id and dont pick up. yes you will have an interal battle but trust me it work. 2 burn the pictures ( recommend doing over a tolit or sink full of water dont want a lisa lopaz moment) concentrate on other things for me it was school because im only 17. and lastly he will try to make advances toward you again but if you are very strong will and determine not to ever ever ever be hurt the way you was hurt last time, you will say no. also find a song that like make you think about them (mines was wyane wonder no letting go) than find a song about how you feel (tweet heaven)
2007-03-21 23:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by tiffy-tiff-tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didnt think you wanted to be the friend with benefits.... if you still talk to him on just friends terms chances are he will know by your attitude toward him, dont still be all lovey dovey when he does try to chat. throw some attitude in there and he'll want to know whats up...simply tell him he obviously has another girl in his life, to be his friend with benefits and he'll get the hint. to make yourself happier go out on a girls night and try to move on by talking to other guys see if someone else might grow to be a new and better interest
2007-03-21 23:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him a dam thing, because it would not matter just go ahead Have yourself a good cry and move on. He is not worth it, and start avoiding all the places you think he might hang out, and tell your friends that you do not even want to here his name that is the best way to over come your heartache.
2007-03-21 23:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be blunt, but you need to go and get laid. If you tell them in advance, guys really don't mind being used in this way. Just make sure you're honest and upfront with them. You'll forget in no time!
2007-03-21 23:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋