Ok so i'm 18 years old and there's this guy i worked with over the summer. He's a year younger than me, and he's really shy and quiet. BUt overtime he started opening up around me and we became really good friends. Eventually he asked for my phone number and we started talking outside of work and we go to school together now.
So for like the past month we haven't talked on the phone and now yesterday he just called me and we talked for a while. I've always liked him alot and i think about him all the time.
Seeing how he still shy around other people, but he's still real open and feels comfortable around me. And he's always askin about me, like if he saw me in the car with another guy, he'll ask the guy like "what was yall doing in the car together?"
And even though he's somewhat open with me, i still think he's shy to actually come out and say he likes me, but what if he doesn't. Should i just tell him i like him too.
And i mean this is becoming an obsession.
2007-03-21 16:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by Edna L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start hanging out. Watch a movie in your room (meaning you're sitting in the bed)...when it's dark after the movie, you might get that sense that something snuggly is going to happen...this always works for me, but be sure u've been hanging out with him for a while. You don't want to scare him off with a sudden move. If you spend time around him, he'll probably be able to sense whether or not you like him. And if you're not hanging out already, why would he bother calling if he's not interested? Why don't you try giving him a call right now?
2007-03-21 16:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by littlemissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he called you yesterday---that's a good sign! It probably means he is thinking about you pretty much the same way you are about him. Stay friendly, encourage him to call so you can get to know each other enough to show your feelings. If he's shy, he needs time for this to develop. There are lots of ways to show him you like him without coming right out and saying it.
2007-03-21 23:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by gammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go for it. I'm a shy guy and if a girl Told me she liked me and I knew her I'd most likely say yes. Since he is shy he may have never had a Girlfriend. For him this could be heaven. Take a chance and don't regret.
2007-03-21 23:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Silverymoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he'd be flattered if you told him how you feel. Some guys are just really shy. It's okay to help him out and take the first step.
2007-03-21 23:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by virtual_skill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely men are completely afraid of rejection so tell him, don`t lose more time, you don`t lose anything anyway, he will tell you he likes you back for sure, if he doesn`t, then you can move on, don`t you think? if you let time pass, bad things happen, other things may come, and you will regret not having said anything, good luck!! ;)
2007-03-21 23:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i'd go for it! it seems like he really trusts you! let me guess, as u rite about him u can feel ur heart beat faster! u obviously have major feelings for him, so i'd just ask him out! he's shy.. but it also seems like he's attempting to make the first move, or atleast push a little closer to it. good luck!!
2007-03-21 23:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your willing to take some initiative make your move =]
2007-03-21 23:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋