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2007-03-21 15:57:48 · 13 answers · asked by NoRNoR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get yourself together that's how. Be more confident. That can't be given to you in one simple answer. Work out and get your body in shape, perhaps a martial arts. Learn how to deal with people effectively, and don't take crap from people. Treat people with respect and demand the same in return. Keep a journal, perhaps seek professional help if you parents can't help you get it together.
Remember: Nobody in life will ever think more highly of yourself than you. If you see yourself as low, everybody else wil see you as even lower.
Good luck, read some self help books and focus on making a change
2007-03-21 16:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how old you r. You sound young, but just remind yourself that their hurtful comments are really just a reflection of what lousy people they are and not on you. People call other people names because they do not feel good about themselves. You may have heard that a lot, and it may not sound correct. However, the longer you live, the more you will see this is true. Also, try to surround yourself with loving people who will appreciate your sensitivity. They are out there!
2007-03-21 16:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with people is not the answer your looking for. You need to be confident with your self. what usally happens is that if someone is making fun of other people and it bothers them then it is something that they themselves are dealing with like for example : If someone calls someone fat that person may beat themselves up for beleiving that they are not happy with the way they look. everyone gets made fun of whether we no it. Taking the steps to find out what makes you unique will help you not to pay attention to what people may say to you, KNowing that you have a lot going for you write the positive things down about yourself and just concentrate on the good things about yourself. like if your kind compassionate, love to help people, have a home, plenty to eat, a place to sleep at night, warm in the winter, stay cool in the summer, you may not think of these things as helpful but they are because not everyone has theses things in the world and these are some of the things that makes you have it going on or that you have good things in your life to be thankful for. Now when you concentrate on you and being confident that you are worth something and that millions of other people envy you for what you do have the ones who make fun of you for petty reasons wont' even bother you. JUst know that some people who bring people down don't even know what they are doing, they themselves are just trying to fit in. So stand up tall, know who you are , what you can do well and be exicited for what you are or will accomplish in your life that you can do alot to make peoples lives easier by being there for them by just being kind and using what you have been given. Be exicited about the possibilites you posses. Than everything else will fall into place my friend
2007-03-21 16:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by ot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is: Don't let them get to you.
The bigger issue would be: why are you so sensitive to what others think? Have you sought counseling or asked a physician about a prescription for an anti-depressant medication? That would probably help.
2007-03-21 16:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by iam_thatgirl69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that words can hurt, is if you think they are true. You need to learn that you are a human being, above petty words. You need to learn your own self worth. Self worth shows you how valuable you are to you. What anyone else thinks IS irrelevant. You need to know this for the words to have no meaning. It would be the same as if I said to you,,," You are a brnhdfllffh, and a viegifh. No meaning!!!!
2007-03-21 16:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you ignore them cause for one you know that you aren't those things. also don,t every let know one put you down cause the reason they probably be putting you down cause they might want what you got or they might be jealous of you. love your-self no matter what people say to you. because you are special to other people and those other people love you for you not for what you are or what you've become.
2007-03-21 16:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-21 15:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by girl b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find solice in truth. These people are bad people. Why let bad people affect you?
2007-03-21 16:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by brandon42032 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just consider the sourse.as long as its bothering you,the longer they are going to do it.just ignor them.
2007-03-21 16:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from such people dear. seems like u cant talk back, or do de same..therefore, avoid them
2007-03-21 16:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋