2007-03-21 15:49:02 · 52 answers · asked by a100shimmer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends with benefits
2007-03-21 15:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by avenger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not trying to be serious with you. Being sexually intimate with someone is already "more than friends." So when he says he wants to be friends first, he really just means that he wants to have sex but does not want to invest time or emotion into a relationship. Many men are like that because they are driven by sex and not emotion like us females are.
If you don't believe me, stop having sex with him, then tell him you just want to be friends before you take it further...and watch how quickly he vanishes. Don't date men like this because they don't have regard for your feelings.
2007-03-21 15:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by kemetic_energy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get laid. Even at the risk of you thinking that there is a chance of a relationship (one of which he probably does not want any part), he wants to satisfy his urges regardless of the expense to you.
If you want to have relationship free sex, then fine. However, if you only want sex if it is a part of the relationship, then you best be sure he is clearly on board with the idea. Leave no wiggle room for the guy.
2007-03-21 16:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he didn't like the sex and wants to end it but doesn't want to hurt the girl's feelings. Or maybe the girl is coming on too strong and he's thinking she should back off a little or maybe a lot, a whole lot
2007-03-21 15:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to have sex without commitment. Don't worry about some idiot calling you easy because if a man sleeps around he's cool - if it's a woman - she's easy. Men and women like to hav sex - it is natural. If you want a relationship with this man, it probably won't happen.
2007-03-21 15:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by terri d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means only one thing, he is in it for the sex and only for the sex, time to tell him to get lost and find some one who really cares. sex should not be an issue where friends are concerned.
2007-03-21 15:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Littlebigdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be "friends, with "benefits"-sex. Friends, start out talking, getting to know one another, on that level Anything beyond that, is not "friendship", it is beyond that. Either with friends with "benefits" of sex, or into a relationship with each other, just the two of you. Take care.
2007-03-21 17:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means hes using you! Stop having sex with him.
2007-03-21 15:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want anything more with you other than being friends. He just wants you for sex until he finds a new girl than he'll drop you and you probably wont' hear from him again.
2007-03-21 15:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by mommy_05_06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but sounds to me like he wants friends with benefits and in the end you will be the one to get hurt unless you want no commitment. But feelings change I think after you sleep with someone. You may grow to love him and he might dump you just because he doesnt want a commitment. My advice end it now because with matters of the heart its all or nothing. Good luck!
2007-03-21 15:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋