(in highschool) any tips on keeping friends?
2007-03-21 15:46:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(tips on respecting women) etc.
2007-03-21 15:53:18 · update #1
it dependz on the girl. I as a girl know alot of girl treat their men wrongly. But open comuncations and not keeping stuff from each other will help. If you worry you are your girlfriend are on the road 2 break up talk with her (if she won't bite your head off) also reasuring her and telling her lovly thingz help. and in high school you never know who's your true friend. I will have 2 tell you that being yourself and letting her be herself will help you out. well I am trying not to make this big so hope this helpz!
2007-03-21 15:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman when you make the breakup. Point out the things about her you still like, and that because of those things, that's what makes you want to remain a friend.
If you've already broken up, confront her and explain how you didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Tell her that there is a guy who is perfect for her out there, and that to be a friend, you'd be willing to help her pursue this person. If she won't accept that, is she really friend material?
2007-03-21 22:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard and you cant really control that to happen. You have to probably be a person who has been in a special place in her heart in order for her to be your friend after you guys break up. If she feels that you are someone special in her life, she'll never forget you even if you guys will be separate and moved on with other people. Ive seen a lot of people break up and still remained friends with their exs.
2007-03-21 22:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long you've been together it can be pretty difficult. Me and one of my guy friends were together for 3 years off and on and now it is so hard to talk to him and think of him as just a "friend". I can't picture him with other girls. We fight more than we talk. So really it's something that you and her will have to decide. No one can tell you how to still be friends with her. Sorry.
2007-03-21 22:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by mommy_05_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly dont screw up liek cheat. dont just dump her for a stupid reason. if you dont htink you are meant for eachother talk to her and ask her if she feels the relationship is the best thing for her. You may really like someone but dont feel its gonna work. if thats teh case tell her you do like ehr but you dotn know if its right for her or you. if she gets upset, maybe she really likes you enough to see. cant hurt to try. if it doesnt work let her know that shes not ur type or what ever the situation might be ina respectful manner and not by telling your buddy and everyone else first with stupid excuses
2007-03-21 22:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda hard to do if u go out with someone then break up and want to still be friends it will work but i dont think yall would be the best of friends but friends that talk and stuff.
2007-03-21 22:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I break-up with my bf's and I'm in high school. But anyways yeah when I break-up with them I normally say "we can still be friends" or I say " do you want to be friends?" Then they answer yes. I hope this helped.
2007-03-21 22:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all let me tell you that you have to be very careful girls like strange things , but u have to be romantic and say you love them each day and if u break up try not to break up with her if not she will be ticked off if not she would still be your friend if you keep bieng nice to her
2007-03-21 22:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by NoRNoR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋