Ok I really like my boyfriend of 2 months. and we were really close. The only problem is he knows something about me taht i dont want anybody else to know like not even my best friend. And he alwasy like blackmails me and says if you dont tell me this i will tell them your secret. I get mad and he wonders why. So today i finally got sick of it and the fact he thoguht i was flirting with another ( younger guy ew) and he kept looking at the opposite teams cheerleaders so i was like ok im done. He cried then walked over to the cheerleaders and got 4 #'s. and like called me ugly and stuff. Then tried to rub it in my face. I called him and i guess we are friends but yeah,....im still upset.
2007-03-21 15:45:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now would be a good time to break things off with him. Black mailing you is not a healthy way to conduct a relationship with anyone. I know how you feel, I think my friend revealed something really personal about me in high school and I was beyond upset with her. Luckily we've managed to stay friends for after all these years. But, your boyfriend is an Azz. If you continue to let him "pull your strings" you will be submitting to his verbal threats/abuse and it CAN'T get better after that. Save yourself! Find out what legal consequences, if any, may be used to thwart his threats. That could be considered slander.
2007-03-21 15:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i expeirenced the same thing he knew a secret about me an d he told the whole college when i broke up with him for cheating we say we are still friends but deep down inside i still have this hidden hate for jim for what he did it won't go away and u probably won't trust him jst keep the cool between you 2 and everthing will be okay.
2007-03-21 22:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him, don't be his friend, and hang with your buds so when he acts like a loser towards you, your buds will have your back. and don't ever go out w/ a guy who's so over protective he thinks you're flirting w/ a guy younger than you.
2007-03-24 22:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by m.mermaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALOT OF GUYS OR JERKS LIKE THAT. THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT CAN BE THAT BAD NO MATTER WHAT IT IS. JUST REMEMBER THAT YOU CAN BLACK MAIL HIM I GUYS WORST FEAR IS HAVING ALITTLE PACKAGE JUST TELL THE CHEERLEADERS THAT HE HAS A LITTLE ONE
2007-03-21 22:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by WILLIE O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats totally messed up. he obvisously wasnt worth your time. no boyfirend should act like that cuz you didnt tell him something or gave him something. he promised you that he wouldnt tell, and then he shouldnt. but it seems to me that he really doesnt care.about you and how you feel.
2007-03-21 22:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by RhixCorE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need to get away from this loser, whatever he knows cant be that bad, just move on.
2007-03-21 23:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... sorry I can't think of anything that would help you
2007-03-21 22:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nohbdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋