ashley (my friend) has a bf. one day, my othr friend and i went 2 the movies and saw him making out w/ anothr girl!! i told ash, but she just says im jealous. i hav an idea 2 set him up and hav her see 4 herself wat a jerk he is, but evrytime i try 2, she just says i hav 2 stop kiddin w/ her or she will...well u dont wanna kno.AND i dont want it 2 b too late when she finds out cuz she thinx hes the guy 4 her. she has probably about 20 ex-bfs!!!
2007-03-21 15:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by *R.A.A.* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time use your phone to take a pic and get proof if you have one!
2007-03-21 16:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're kind of in a sticky situation. Technically you shouldn't get involved now that she's written you off but then again you don't want it to bite you in the butt either. I would just tell your friend that you care about her as a friend and don't want her to get hurt and tell her everything you know. Give every detail so it doesn't seem as made up. Then honestly it's up to her. I'm sure by you telling her stuff that's put a little thought in her head so she might eventually figure it out or pursue it herself. Right now she's probably just trying everything in her power not to believe. what girl would? But it wouldn't be right for her to be mad at you later on cause you were being a friend
2007-03-21 22:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well ive been in your friends situation b4. it is hard to believe a friend when u feel you love your bf and dont want to believe that he is cheating. However, it may be nasty, so if she dont beleive u and u r truely concerned about her (not getting the guy after they have broken up), maybe geting evidence is good. Photography and video recording is a bit freaky, but it would be very effective...
2007-03-21 23:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get a picture or text message or email or something that catches him in the act
2007-03-21 22:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by js95116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't beliv in your stories and say your just jealous then i suggest you tape her bf and before you let ash see the record tell her your just concernd becoz she's your friend and you don't like her to get hurt furthermore
2007-03-21 22:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!.......I no wat u can do! u can video tape him u no lik under cover agent sort of! sure it will brek her heart but once she sees it she'll no to trust u next time.......good luck :)
2007-03-21 22:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by THERESITA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋