can someone please help me i will choose a best answer when i get the chance...
my problem is i am scared to talk to girls.. i will talk to them but when some girl is at a place im afraid to walk up to her and say hi, i dont know why... im not a bad looking guy, i always have girls look at me and when i get a chance to take them places i always get nervious and blow it for myself.. so why am i so shy/nervious to talk to women?
here is a story to understand more about my question..
i met someone online and she lives in the same area. tonight i seen her at the club when i was outside smoking a cigg, and i told her i would be in when i was finished. well i went inside after and she was with a couple friends at a table and i was afraid to go over and start talking with them.. so about five min after i left.. i dont know why when the time comes i get scared to make a move like that... now when im buzzed / drunk from beer i will go right up and say hi without thinking twice.
2007-03-21 15:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by ~Aaron~ ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When u are buzzed u have more confidence b/c u dont think about it, u can just go right up to a girl and say hi and talk b/c u really dont care what they think! Everyone is more outgoing when they are drunk! I would say that when u are sober u just need to learn to get over ur fears, what could be the worst thing that would happen if u went up to that table in the club? It wasnt like u knew them and would u really see them ever again if something bad happened? U need to take more chances and try to be less nervous? I suggest group things, u are usually less nervous in groups and u can meet girls with ur friends and that way u can have conversations and the girls can see what they think of u that way and u will be more confident if u have a friend there ( a wingman ! Just try talking to a girl the next time ur at a club or bar or watever nothing can hurt from talking to her there are like 200 others there that u can talk to if she doesnt want too!! Good luck and hope this helps!!
2007-03-21 15:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by sporty19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scared To Talk To Girls
2016-11-08 04:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try smiling at them, first. I used to be shy in high school and didn't have the nerve to talk to any girls. I would smile at them or nod my head when I walked by them. Well, it turned out that they thought I was a nice guy and that I was polite and friendly. Who would've thought that? Then, I simply started saying "hi" and that's all. Nothing else. Then, I said "hi, how are you?" but didn't wait for an answer and kept on walking. One word led to the next and soon I had nerve to start a conversation. If you just say "hi" or "hi, how are you?" and you keep on walking, you don't give anyone a chance to reject you and you also look like you're a busy guy with stuff to do. One day, believe it or not, a girl will answer and say "hi" back, and it's THEN that you stop walking and start a conversation. It happened to me AND all of my buddies. Plus, girls kinda know that guys aren't into talking a lot, so you've got points right there.
2016-03-18 00:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wanted to answer a Q like this. I'm a girl...I think people like me would rather a guy pay attention to them than their friends who they're always around. Change is great. I don't think that I'm attractive but others really do think so. Why are you so nervous? Because everyone is and can be. I was until something good came out of it.
2007-03-21 15:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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why am i scared to talk to girls ? someone help me please?
can someone please help me i will choose a best answer when i get the chance...
my problem is i am scared to talk to girls.. i will talk to them but when some girl is at a place im afraid to walk up to her and say hi, i dont know why... im not a bad looking guy, i always have girls look at me...
2015-08-15 13:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be scared . I was scared of a girl too once bought listen, we all have low moments so just keep your head up.
2013-12-15 10:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl. Don't be scared. Just say Hi or whatever smile
2007-03-21 15:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-21 15:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are scared of rejection.
2007-03-21 15:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
catch her alone.
just be yourself.
dont think about what you are doing, just do it.
please dont get drunk, people hate that.
dont smoke either, people hate that too.
2007-03-21 15:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋