i know he loves me and thinks i'm sexy and whenever we do have sex it's awesome, but he NEVER wants to do it. and don't say he's cheating, because i know he's not. we share a car, and he doesn't really go anywhere. could you also please give me maybe some kind of websites that might help me? Please!
2007-03-21 15:42:55 · 35 answers · asked by misspennylane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if it helps any, I would have sex with you.
2007-03-21 15:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Does he work out, work hard, or play sports? My boyfriend had the same problem and all three were the case. It may be that he's just tired out. I've also noticed that some males just have less of a sex drive than others. You could try porn or sex notes...things to get him thinking about sex a few hours before the act occurs. You could also tell him your concern gently. Don't bash his prowess, but ask him if anything is wrong. He may also feel depressed or be taking medications that lower his sex drive. You can actually get from the doctor other medications that will heighten sex drive if you feel it's a serious problem.
2007-03-21 15:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by littlemissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all..how old are you?! It's good to wait you know. You never know...you could end up pregnant because of this and when you get older you'll look back and wonder why you did such a silly thing. You're boyfriend might not wanna participate in sexual intercourse with you because he might not be ready for it or he might want to wait. Hope that helps. The best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 15:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and thinks your sexy,plus you have awesome sex when you do.It could be caused by a state of depression that most men won't discuss with anyone.Men tend to ignore depression thinking there isn't a problem.He may have certain goals in his life that he feels he has failed to achieve.
2007-03-21 15:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by pete63daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be stressed or he maybe is feeling too tired? Or he is feeling a lack of sexual drive. Go see a counselor or something because a guy not wanting to have sex with you is not normal.
2007-03-21 15:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie it's not that he don't love you it's just probably that he need a little space right now. cause it's not that he need space from you it's just that he need space from sex. cause sex is not always because of that you are pretty,or that you have a big butt, it's all about love, trust, commitment, and loving your relationship. give him some time he'll come around and when he do you will know cause you know he loves you okay sweetie.
2007-03-21 15:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some sexy underwear work out three times a week groom yourself really well, smell really sweet an try to see if that works
when I say groom I mean hair and make up nails and wjayever you girls do own there
2007-03-21 15:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by jigadee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he just doesnt feel like sex at the moment, I think you are very lucky because he loves you for who you are and not the sex.
2007-03-21 15:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. communication is key. sometimes the overload of pornographic movies, magazines, or internet sites may be causing this dilemma. the need to find something or someone sexier. you're right he may not be cheating but you cannot control ones feelings and fantasies. I really wouldn't know where to start but like said before, talk to him.
2007-03-21 15:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by EddieRasco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Every relationship needs trust and communication.... I think you need to just sit down and talk.... I know people who have the opposite problem, he always wants it and she never does....
Perhaps he's just got a lot of stress goin on or he's tired, or perhaps he's just got a low sex drive...
Communication though...that's your key
2007-03-21 15:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just hard for him to get in the mood or something! if you go to www.ivillage.com they have a good section on Sex! I hope it helps
2007-03-21 15:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by js95116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋