There is this guy in our class. I don't feel comfortable whenever he's there. I feel like I have to control myself because of embrassment of falling down or just being weird and crazy.
Yesterday, he wasn't there in class and I felt so relaxed in class. I was listening to the teacher more. But today, I wasn't relax at all, he was there. He sits in a chair facing me. I can't switch my seat because all of the seats is full and it's assign seats.
I'm 18. He's 30 years old but he looks young, I guess he works out that's why. He has 3 kids
2007-03-21 15:35:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 30 and he's still going to school? Woah!
2007-03-21 15:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this, your 18 and he is 30 and has three kids. Is he married? Your just starting the prime of your life and want to hook up with a man who has three kids? Why start out the prime of your life that way? I think you are attracted to this guy, thats ok. If you want to be attached to someone who has 3 kids, you need to look at your priorities. You are way to young to handle the responsibility of 3 kids. Get more schooling and focus on making sure you are set for life with knowledge. Don't let a mere crush set your future. You will not be bettering yourself by settling with this guy. Make sure at least you have your priorities for yourself set high before hooking up with this fellow. You were relaxed, when he was not there that day, because you felt like he would be the one judging you. Get your head out of your ***. He has three kids. Focus on your education!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do yourself that favor at least.
2007-03-21 15:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, is this some vo-tech school your going too? Hate to think a 30 year old is still in school. But I would say that there's something there with you being the way you are with him around. I would chat with him to see if it loosens you up more and go from there. You never know unless you try. Your 18, time to grow up, and I mean that in a nice way.......
2007-03-21 15:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you have wayyy to much ahead of you to be getting flustered all over a 30 YEAR OLD MAN with baggage. Along wit those 3 kids is a crazy ex-wife/girlfriend/baby mama/or whatever.
Find someone your age who has the same mentality and priorities as you
2007-03-21 15:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you have a crush on this man...But girl think about the whole situation, yeah he maybe a sexy man, nice body, good perv but be realistic would you really want anything to do with him? seriously? You are so young he is so much older than you...he has excess baggage..wife? or ex-wife? and not to mention kids? Trust me it won't work out so just enjoy the good perv but don't let it go any further.
2007-03-21 15:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by brazilian_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, i'm confused. hes 30 and has 3 kids but hes in school? oh yeah, thats gonna work out great. 3 kids see their dad going out with an eighteen year old. dont be ridiculous
2007-03-21 15:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I'm pretty sure you do. Whenever your around someone who makes you that nervous and ancy that means you really care what they think about you and you really want them to like you. But 30 and three kids is something you probably don't want to get tangled in
2007-03-21 15:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people want what they CAN'T HAVE....simply because they can't have it!
This man is "already taken" ~ even if only by his age and status as a father. You should be careful that playing flirty games with this person as it is not an ethical thing to do. Sounds to me as if this chap is your teacher and that makes it even less ethical (or desirable)
This about CONSEQUENCES.
2007-03-21 15:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by wise_owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am 39 and going to school again!!!. Anyway the answer to your question is YES you have a crush on him. May not lead to anything but you do have a crush. You don't mention whether or not he is married?
2007-03-21 15:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by calired67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have a crush on him. but chances are if hes 30 and has 3 kids hes probably married, so i would just let it go. plus he just way too old for you.
2007-03-21 15:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure you just think he's attractive, happened to me a 570948590845 times. Haha, sure are a lot of attractive people. And we always want what we can't have, thats why we're attracted and plus he's probably good looking to you.
2007-03-21 15:40:02 · answer #11 · answered by little bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋