My ex is locked up because of what he did. He says that regret doing what he did. I have da power in my hand. It is all up to me. I want to move on with my life without him. I don't think he would like it if I just come right out and tell him that. I haven't talk to him in a while.He had someone come around my house to see if I was okay. I was worried because he hasn't heard from me.
I have a week to decide what I really want to do cause court is next week.
But to top it off we have a child together.
What should I do? I want to live peaceful but I want my child to know their father. I need some good advice Please help me.
2007-03-21 15:28:13 · 4 answers · asked by Tel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get rid of the guilt and get on with your life. sounds like he did something pretty bad if he's locked up. why would you want someone like that in you life or you child's life? he can still be the childs father but you don't have to be with him. let him do his time and don't fall for his lines of apology. the world is filled with women who've taken back men that have abused them(if thats what happened). don't be a statistic.
2007-03-21 15:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need a little more info...What was he locked up for? How long has he been locked up? Does your child have a relationship with him? If he did something violent, move on without him, your child is better off. if he made a mistake, did his time and appears to be ready to be a father then you have to let him be a part of your child's life, that doesn't mean you have to be with him. But you should give him a chance to be a daddy.
2007-03-21 15:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you want to do and I can't say I blame you considering the circumstances, Even if you were to wait and there is no mention how long he will be in jail, there is no guarantee he won't end up back in jail...I'd wait for the sentencing in court and make a final decision...and tell him as soon after as you can...don't let him find out from someone else...he will understand if you tell him...and if he finds out from someone else he may not beleive it and try to interfere in your life...good luck.
2007-03-21 15:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex is locked up because of Domestic Violence, then be grateful to be out of that relationship. When men put their hands on a woman it crosses a huge line and breaks trust. And, he'll do it again....and again. If your ex gets his life together then perhaps he can see his child, otherwise it might be too risky for both you and your baby. If your ex is locked up for drugs, assault, robbery etc., then let him stay there and pursue treatment when he gets out. Remember, you have a child and its up to you to protect him/her!
2007-03-21 15:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋