im a nice sensetive caring guy and i am really romantic and dont feel ashamed about it i alwasy teat a gurl with respect and am alwasy loyal yo her the last gurl i had i did so many things like buy her flowers every month, write he poems, take her out on dates and do anything to make her happy but unfortunately it didnt work cuse she cheated on me do i need to change my personality or was it just her?? please help thanks you
2007-03-21 15:26:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there,
It wasn't you. It was her. She cheated on you. Your personality is perfect. You don't have to change anything, just be your self that's how you will attract the girls. If I knew you I would go out with you. Any ways you sound hot. So be your self, don't change your personality, and you will attract them. Good luck.
2007-03-21 16:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personality will change, buddy. I can tell you're really young, probably pretty shy, and haven't been with a lot of girls yet. Most guys started out like you. Girls say what they think they're supposed to say, and many won't be honest about this, but they definately ARE most attracted to strong, confident men. The class jock or playboy or stud isn't the most sensitive or sweetest or romantic guy around, but you notice as well that he gets a thousand times more girls than the sweet softies like you. Nice guys sleep alone. Looks and power are extremely attractive. Girls are shallow as we are, they just don't like to admit it. I was like you too. Very few girls liked me when I was prepubescent. I was a late bloomer. Long hair, awkard kid, liked romantic movies. Got pushed out of girls a lot. Puberty hit me like a brick wall and I got taller, started a job as a personal trainer and got a much more masculine physique, my baby fat melted away and my round face leaned out and became much more sculpted and handsome. Developed my own style, different hair, expensive clothes, rode a sportbike.
Suddenly the girls wouldn't leave me alone. Did my personality change? No. It was all this shallow stuff that girls try to claim isn't that important to them. They're shallow too. I've been cheated on and screwed with too, and it changes you... you can't be that nice guy for too long. Don't put girls on a pedestal and just enjoy it for what it is, taking girls from nice guys like you used to be.
2007-03-21 15:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was just her...In all honesty, if not being married to my husband, who does a lot of the same things you do, you are the type of guy I want... I've always wanted a guy like that and I was lucky enough to find him... perhaps he doesn't do as much as you in the flower department or dates...but we do a lot of stuff together and we both write poetry....
I think it's sweet that you are that way and I would honestly say, don't ever change. You are a true gentleman.
2007-03-21 15:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely dont need to change your personality, b/c then she wouldn't be getting to know the real you. The right one just hasnt come along for you yet, if she cheated on you, she wasn't good enough anyway...
2007-03-21 15:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by southren_lvr_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wasnt interested in you anymore. That happens to people, which is why they cheat. Dont change who you are just to impress people and its not your fault she cheated on you. Anyway, I think you would be a nice sweet guy that any women would love to have.
2007-03-21 15:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound like a really nice guy but Ithink you should probabaly lighten up on all the poetry and such because it might be that you are acting a bit too sensitive. lol. I personally don't like guys who are too mushy but hey, other than that your doing well
2007-03-21 15:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be your being extra nice.such guys work mostly just as friends, not the kind of guy for whom the girl will be exited for.a charming guy with a bad boy edge,is just the most lethal combination ever. add a dash of passion towards your woman and compassion towards others.'looks' will take a back seat if the guy is confident and speaks well. to top it all - make sure you smell bloody good.!!
2007-03-21 15:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont change your personality!!! Any girl would be lucky to have you. And every girl deserves to be pampered... However if they take advantage of you and then lose you, that is their loss. You shouldnt change... but dont get walked all over either... Good luck.
2007-03-21 15:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwwwww, you seem liek a really sweet guy, i would totally date you! i'm sure if you told that to any girl she would date you. and about the whole cheating thing, obviously it was just her, she didnt realalize how good she had, i wish i could find a sweet guy who would do anything fro me. hope this helps you out!
2007-03-21 15:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was just her. i mean, what normal girl wouldnt like the way u treated her. i would just love for a guy to do that for me. ur technique works; dont change. u hav the personality any girl would die to hav as a boyfriend. u r awesome.
2007-03-21 15:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋